I enjoy having sex with my S/O. It is so good at times. I only hate when he's stroking me so nicely then he has to stop because he don't want to cum  just yet. That sets me back especially when I was almost there. Sometimes after sex I just go in the bathroom with my little toy and finish myself off. How do I fix this without hurting his feelings?i tried telling him that I wasn't having orgasms through penetration and that was the worst thing I could've done to his manhood. I don't wanna add more fuel to the fire.