Hi all! Had my 6 week confirmation today and everything went well.

I called my mom after as she knew I was going to the gyno, she assumed it was my yearly and she was like, 'everything go ok? Whew, I was worried you were going to tell me you were pregnant". And I just said, "yeah, God forbid" and changed the subject

A little back story, I am a married (2 yrs in may), own my own home and vehicles, have a really good job, as does my husband. I have always been my mom's favorite and I feel like she is scared I will make the same decisions that she regrets.

My sister is a total F up and they are ALWAYS having to help her out. There's stuff going on with her now and I feel like if I tell them I'm pregnant she will think it's something else she has to 'fix' or 'take care of'. My sister has 3 children and all her pregnancies were not happy news to my parents, all the babies father's were total losers and my parents always ended up paying for everything and taking on the responsibility of raising her children.

Me and my husband are very excited and I kind of feel bummed out, like I don't want to share it with her because I don't want a little rain cloud over something I'm excited for

Anyone else in a similar position or have any advice? Thank you!