Am I a cheater?

Question

Been with my boyfriend for two years now and have never orgasmed. It's my own fault because the feeling always gets too intense and I tell him to stop whatever he's doing. 
However, I'm curious about what sex with other people would be like. Of course, I've never acted upon these feelings but I keep having fantasies about other people. My boyfriend is so gentle and never is dominant in the bedroom, it's just not him. I'm having fantasies about a big tall guy throwing me around in the bedroom and my boyfriend is just too sweet. He would be so hurt if I ever voiced these feelings to him but I just don't know what to do.

Answer

I don't think you're a cheater as long as you don't act upon it.  Communication is the best. Just talk about what he likes in the bedroom and bring up what you like. He might secretly want to be more rough with you.  Best of luck to you!!!

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Maybe talk to him about what you like. I use to think this way about my husband he looked so sweet and innocent and I'd talk to him about what I wanted. And realize I didn't really have to say much. He already knew what to do. Just a little chat might help spice things up. Try it. Hope it works out.

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Just be open with him! Talk about your sexual fantasies. No that doesn't make you a cheater. Just find the right moment. Talk calmly about it, and tell him how you feel. Don't tell him that you don't think that's something he would want to do. But be like "I think it would be really hot if you kinda grabbed me and threw me around a little during sex, it's a fantasy of mine and I really want to try it if you're up for it", then see what he says!

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Lol yeah you're a cheater

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