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Hey I'm new on this app I love to make some friends

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Last reply Nov 25, 2024

co

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I'm like actually insane.

So, the backstory here is that I've had a LOT of abuse. 25 years worth. I was severely gaslit to the point of believing that I was psychotic for several years. And then as an adult, I was in a DV situation. So sometimes assessing these types of situations is really difficult. I'm really hurt right now, but I really don't think I should be. I'm still healing and still feeling very raw and fragile, but I'm making progress. So anyway, this whole thing is so stupid. I was at a point in my healing that I decided that I wanted to start dating soon. I went into some online lesbian communities essentially in order to practice these types of interactions again and get back into the groove of being flirty, single, sexy, etc. I've been very isolated for eight years now, so I figured I was rusty. So, usually the interactions are very surface level, like I said flirty, not too deep or long, etc. So this masc girl says that she's basically demisexual and emotional connection is very important to her. So we get to talking and we're really hitting it off. Mind you, I have VERY high standards for myself and it's very rare that I actually like someone. But this girl had it all... She's in law school, plays multiple instruments, nerdy just like me, and tallllll. I made it known that I really liked her and we were flirting back and forth. And she was actively engaging very deeply, asking questions about my family and all kinds of shit. So a few long, deep conversations later and I say something regarding taking the conversation somewhere else and she says no due to professional reasons??? I've had online friendships develop in the past, so I guess I just assumed that that's where we were going? Idk I was really pissed that she let the conversation get that deep while knowing that I was really feeling her and knowing that she didn't want it to develop? Like maybe communicate? But at the same time, I do feel like I am absolutely way too upset about this and I really shouldn't be this bothered by a random online interaction? Idk. Like I said, I feel like I'm still healing from everything I've been through, which I can't really help. It's not her fault that I'm really fucking sensitive right now, but at the same time, I just feel like when you notice that someone else is developing feelings faster than you, maybe communicate ahead of time? And like how long was she going to let that go if I didn't say anything and then decide to back out? I feel like she's straddling this line of getting her needs met with no regard to how that affects other people? Idk. I'm really hurt, but I feel like it's completely irrational and I absolutely hate that I'm acting like this 😔

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Last reply Oct 31, 2024

Dating app recommendations?

Hi!I am (unfortunately) back in the trenches and considering downloading a couple apps again.Which ones would you all say are best? Which have you had the most luck with? As a lesbian I’m trying to figure out which ones would be best to use :)TIA!!

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Last reply Oct 3, 2024

Ta

Have you tried using the lesbian dating app called HER? Me and my gf of three years now met on that app and I found it to be the one I made genuine connections on.

Newlyweds 👀 wife and wife

I ordered some new toys to spice up me and my wife’s nighttime’s. But we just had our Wedding ceremony this year and I already feel like I have to push for her to not be so shy. I think it’s maybe that she compares our bodies even though we don’t share the same shape doesn’t mean Im not attracted to her. We get hot and spicey a lot but not daily like we used to and idk why.

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Last reply Sep 6, 2024

Ca

Talk to her about it and ask, only way to find out

Day after insemination

Good evening, I inseminated yesterday evening and today I feel tired and nauseated. Is that normal????

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Last reply Aug 15, 2024

Ni

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First time tips?

Hey, first time posting and my first language isn't english, so feel free to correct any spelling mistakes.I'm a trans guy (he/they) and I'm currently with the best partner I've ever had (any pronouns), it's honestly the first healthy relationship I've ever had and I love them so much.I just wanted to ask for some first time tips, because I really want to have my first time and it'll be really special because it's with him, but naturally... I'm very nervous lol. But I really want it, can't wait to finally fulfill my fantasies as a sub ;)

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Last reply Sep 2, 2024

Ro

Just relax and let the time flow. I hope it went well

Hot Tea 🌈

Okay y’all so me Nd this girl started talking right (we’re gonna call her “M” ) we’ve been talking for a month now Nd we both talk to other people also , well today M was on a call with our mutual friend Nd she was telling him how she’s fw this other girl who has a BF! Nd the boyfriend caught M hiding in the closet Nd broke her phone . The next day that same girl who has a bf went through M’s phone Nd ofc goes through our messages Nd starts crying over it , M comes with our mutual friend to go out and we drop him off so it’s just her Nd I , I guess the girl had her lo cause she leaned her seat back Nd said the girl texted M talking about she’s about to pass us Nd she better not be in my front seat , M fr gets in the back seat as the girl passes by my car ! Like be so fr right now ! So we get to her crib Nd she’s like “when’re we going on a date?” 😦 atp im ignoring her not paying her no mind like no one’s in the car Nd she starts getting an attitude so I told her she needs to worry about why she’s in the back seat. When I dropped her off she walked around to my window but Ide pull it down I just pulled off Nd she started hitting on my car 💀

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Last reply Jun 21, 2024

Help!

Hey everyone, me and my wife are starting the ttc journey. I’m starting to track ovulation, I’ve been taking prenatals. Help on where to go for donor that’s not $800+ for one vile. Would love any tips or tricks as well. Hoping to only have to do it once or twice. Thank you in advance.

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Last reply Jun 9, 2024

Eve for gay ladies

When will eve have options for lesbians to track?!

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Last reply Jun 9, 2024

Ma

Track what exactly?

Tips on going down on women (lgbt)

Ive been talking to this girl and it has been very flirty and sexual. We are long distance, but are likely going to meet within a few weeks. Im nervous because I want to make her happy and i have never gone down on a woman. I figure it cant be that hard if men do it, and i know what feels good to me... But does anyone have tips?

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Last reply Jun 7, 2024

Ri

Hye! Start talking about it now. Always start with hold her hand first. Put on perfume. Clean up ie manicure. First impressive is important!

Should I message her?

It's such a stupid situation. We used to work together. We clearly liked each other, but we never really talked because we were both pretty nervous and not ready (or at least that's my perspective). A few people tried to tell me that we were soul mates. There's been times that I've messaged her and she's ignored me and there's been times where she's tried to talk to me and I walked away. We haven't seen each other in a couple of years. She's still at the same shitty job that we met at, but I've leveled up a lot a lot. But I'm all of a sudden just wanting her to come overrrrr. I don't think we're compatible anymore, but damn I'm wondering what the rest of her tattoos look like 🤤 My heart is beating hard just thinking about it. Honestly, though, if I do message, she probably won't reply or even see it, so it's probably a moot point anyway 😂 I want to get her out of my system 😡

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Last reply May 24, 2024

ch

Message her!!! (And keep me updated🤣)

Hello everyone I’m Minty.‼️😜

Been on here a while now but decided to show my face now lol 🤩🥰 Hey yall!! Wassup 🏳️‍🌈

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Last reply Apr 13, 2024

Us🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 EST 2016 🫶🏾

True love 😍😍

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Last reply Apr 13, 2024

Are long nails bad for a date with a woman?

So this girl I really like asked me out and I really want to see her but at the moment I have long fake nails on. As a bisexual, I just get my nails done for my birthday and enjoy having them long for a month then but does this give a bad impression? Not that we would be sleeping together on the first date but I just wouldn’t want her to think I’m not that into women or anything like that. I did post a story about my nails on my Instagram and she follows me so I’m assuming she saw it? She asked me out after that. Thoughts?

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Last reply Apr 6, 2024

Mi

Keep the nails . See how far it goes if she doesn’t like them now too bad.

New here 🏳️‍🌈♋️

Bay Area

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Last reply Mar 14, 2024

In love with a straight boy as a gender fluid person

Title is self explanatory, but there’s more context. This boy was my first boyfriend, first kiss, first love, first person I came out to as bi, first person I came out as nonbinary(technically still true) to. We broke up over a year ago, more or less mutually, we both grew as people, he joined the marines and wanted to catch up before he left for basic. We had a great time and have been pen pals since. I’m falling in love with him again but I also realized that I’m gender fluid. We aren’t even together again(yet??), but I’m worried I might become his girlfriend or his partner, but I’ll never be his boyfriend. He was supportive with me being nonbinary but what if it’s different when I have a he/him day or month? When I start T and get a reduction? I’m not in a safe place to transition medically, but should I wait to attempt another try until after I can? What if it causes family drama? Should I just lay it all out for him? He’s had to restart training because of medical reasons so it will be at least a month (or another three because he had a relapse a week ago) until I see him again and this feels like a face to face kinda talk. I don’t want to wait around forever not knowing, or go to his graduation and drop it on him

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Last reply Mar 12, 2024

hey everyone :) new here and need help :D

TRIGGER WARNING: SA also this is probably kind of TMI so beware lol just want to make sure everyone is comfortable before reading my experience hi!! so i want to stay anonymous just in case. but im 19, a non binary lesbian, and ive had tremendous amounts of sexual trauma. so, for the past few years and first years of college, i havent been able to have a love life if ykwim. im too anxious to do anything because im so scared of intimacy. im also having trouble because i kind of have a crush on this girl sophia, and the entire day i was like having day dreams about us and i want to make a move and do things with her but my anxiety is holding me back. but when i try to please myself, i cant get off. im scared that i wont ever be able to feel good in bed again. is it all in my head, like a mental block?

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Last reply Mar 8, 2024

Ka

Hi! First, I'm so sorry that you ever had to deal with that issue. If you're still in college, you should totally seek out therapists on campus. Hopefully, you're at a somewhat larger campus that does have mental health resources. I struggle with generalized anxiety disorder and PTSD. I can tell you that medication has 100% helped me. It can be very scary to seek medication, but it'll help so much to calm your anxious thoughts. That way you'll be able to talk with Sophia and what not. Trying to unpack your trauma might be the best option in order to relax yourself so that you can have intimate fun. Also, I'm sure your crush would be more than willing to be patient and work with you. Best of luck!

Hey y'all

Looking for a bi girls to talk with and because friends

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Last reply Feb 25, 2024

Heartbroken

I'm so fucked up....I'm so heartbroken....I just need to get this off my chest. So I had an ex s few years ago that like I think I truly fell in love with, first really lesbian fall, and I thought it was perfect like couldn't ask for a better moment in my life. There were things they happened that did make me question things but later on when we were noong together we talked about them, I saw a different perspective. Kinds settled to compromise on a lot. So in current present time we did try getting back together, we were both talking to someone. She said she would always be there for me and be a friend to me and we could still be friends but we definitely were talking to people, well the person that I was talking to eventually said that she didn't want me talking anymore exes well me and my ex just so happened to be in a heated conversation about some of our past problems. Sadly, this conversation escalated to a unhealthy point and I was actually going to meet the girl I was talking to for the first time and I didn't have enough time to make the situation better before I left so I blocked her and tried to send her messages letting her know that I wasn't liking the direction that the conversation was going because it's shown that she was throwing a pity party for herself instead of actually understanding the different perspectives on the situation I also included that I still loved her I always loved her and at this point in my life I don't think I could ever like not love her anymore like it's just there right now. So we ended up not talking anymore for like maybe a month and in this time it was a huge slap in the face that the girl that I was talking to was like a big distraction I spend a lot of money on seeing her she seemed very controlling I feel like I was giving so much of myself into a relationship that wasn't even completely labeled yet we were just still trying to get to know each other to see if we could be together in the future well obviously me and her are no longer talking so I contacted my friend/x and had hopes that maybe we could be friends again and I could talk to her and just tell her how dumb I felt that I kicked her out of my life or hopes of something that didn't come also she did tell me that she was okay with me talking to this girl and her not being in my life anymore if that's what it meant for me to talk to her. Well turns out her and the girl that she's talking to are flourishing of course they are, and what's even more interesting is that the one thing she told me she would never do she couldn't do it she could never see yourself doing it was being a poly relationship and now she's dating a girl who has a husband and she's sharing somebody something that she literally said she could never do when we had talked about being poly because when I had met her I had just left a poly relationship I didn't necessarily tried to convince her that it was something that she should open her mind to but I definitely try to let her know that there were pluses to it and I felt that her personality and who she was would be able to handle that and at the time in our relationship it drove such a wedge in between us that she said she literally shut down and stop wanting to pursue me just because she had made up this story that I was never going to be with her because I would only want to be poly. It was such a huge slap in the face because I had explained to her all the different dynamics of poly and trust and maturity and just all these things and she was just so negative about it and I am just absolutely so crushed I can't stop crying her words won't stop echoing in my head about how she could never do this and I just feel like I wasn't good enough that she wanted to do it with me that she decided to do with just some random person and then it made me feel like I guess I just wasn't good enough in general. I'm so hurt I've been crying for hours and I feel so stupid.P.s. when we started talking again in the present her mom was going through some health issues and in that time she kind of leaned on me as a good friend and because I missed her and loved her still I was there for a friend for her, when I realized that the chick that I was talking to wasn't for me and our relationship wasn't going to work so I went back to my friend in hopes that she would be my friend she literally told me that she couldn't do anything for me. I don't remember if I said that or not but if I didn't yeah.

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Last reply Feb 24, 2024