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I recently made a new friend and we get along well, however I found that she started to become a little bit hate to use the word “needy “, but I feel that in some ways she is. She recently expressed how when we meet, she wants a set plan itinerary, But that isn’t really how I work I have a busy life and I don’t have much time to plan itineraries I’m more of a walk and a coffee kind of girl.

I have recently started a new job and it’s very intense and I’m not used to such pressure and feeling stressed, however I am enjoying the new job I’m just getting used to it. And this week was one of the busiest stressful weeks I’ve ever had and I’ve been absolutely exhausted. Despite this I still made the effort on last Thursday to book to go to the cinema with her. As I was saying goodbye to her and running from my train, I said “are you free at the weekend perhaps we could do something. “

The next day at work was also really really busy, I didn’t look at my phone during the day I didn’t realise that she’d sent me a video titled “things to do in London this weekend “. When I got home from work at 7 pm, I had a scheduled phone call with my new boyfriend who is in the army so we are currently long distance, I made a quick dinner, and then another friend of mine phoned me up and asked me if I would like to do the Parkrun in the morning. Then my mum contacted me to ask if she could see me on Sunday. I was absolutely so tired I fell asleep on the sofa with a light on

I was up early the next day and went to do the park run with my friend, and then I went back to hers and helped her with something made some food. When I was there, I got a text message from my new friend asking if we still wanted to meet this weekend. It was then I realised I missed a message from the previous day, and I quickly replied and let her know that I would be free later this afternoon. I genuinely had just forgotten I’d mention meeting given how busy I have been at workI could tell by her tone in the message that she was a bit annoyed that I had said that I was free all weekend

Anyway, I left my friends house to get back home, get showered after my run and Have a nap because I was getting a migraine. Made a plan with her to meet her at 3:30. As I getting ready to leave, she started sending these chat GPT messages talking about how I haven’t let her know about the plans this weekend. I let her know I was leaving and left the house and I travelled all the way across London to see her when I arrived she text me that she can’t see me anymore because she has too much to do around the house.

This was really upsetting to me because I travelled all that way I made the effort to make some time for her. I feel like she let me travel all that way on purpose to ‘get back at me.’ Also, sometimes I know I can be a bit bad at replying Especially during stressful periods, but I will never let anybody down I will always stick to a plan that’s been made and I will never cancel plans. I was really upset when I found out she wasn’t coming anymore

She Then continue to send chat GPT generated messages as below. I feel like it’s very intense for a newish friendship, and I understand maybe she is disappointed, but I genuinely just forgot and she could have phoned me up to ask. Am I really a bad person here? I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed with my new job and tiredness, I regret even saying I was free at the weekend. This whole situation ruined my weekend, I was proud of myself for going for a run with a friend, and then this whole situation spoilt it.

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