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Pregnant and sex toys! šŸ’¦šŸ—œļøā¤ļøšŸ˜»

Baby 2 due in august . Havenā€™t been in sexy mood for a while and hubby been patient . Recently heā€™s gone out on work trip and I missed our fun and sent him topless video . My boobs have gotten huge ! Omg turns me on looking at my video too šŸ˜‚ hubby loved it obviously and we had some dirty talk and turned us both on. Just because Iā€™m pregnant doesnā€™t mean I canā€™t have fun!! Iā€™ve ordered a special clit sucker that he can use on me (refuse to have him go down on me because of preggo juices! Eww ) and I canā€™t wait : never used it before . I ordered a ribbed dick extender canā€™t wait ! I just love to ride my man and I want to do it so bad . Heā€™s going to enjoy a great view ! Weā€™re using whipped cream and honey when we meet šŸ˜»ordered nipple clamps buecusee I just wanna feel turned on and sexy af. Preggo mamas can also be hot .Any tips from other preggo mamas ?? How you turn on your man ??

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Last reply Apr 11, 2023

Cum texture?

Sometimes when i orgasm i squirt, and sometimes when i orgasm i get super creamy. Is there a science reason for the change? Position ? Where Iā€™m at in my cycle? Etc. Iā€™m just curious lol

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Last reply Sep 2, 2023

Kr

Women secrete various distinct and different fluids during arousal, masturbation and sex. Over the last 15 years, we got a much clearer idea of what these fluids are: * Mucus - A clear, milky or creamy fluid being secreted from the cervix and vaginal lining to clean, lubricate, and protect the area. It also helps sperm survive inside the vagina and cervix during the womanā€™s fertile week. In some phases of your menstrual cycle it changes in texture and quantity. * Arousal fluid - Plasma from cells in the vaginal lining being squeezed out due to the engorgement of the area. * Fluid from the Bartholinā€™s glands - This is the same fluid that men secrete from the Cowperā€™s gland, and which is called pre-ejaculate or pre-cum in a man. The purpose of this fluid is thought to be to lubricate and disinfect the vaginal entrance during sex.The two Bartholinā€™s glands open up next to the vaginal opening. * Female ejaculation - Fluid being produced by the female prostate (aka paraurethral glands) and Skeneā€™s glands. This is the same tissue as the male prostate, and the fluid is the same in color, texture, taste and quantity as male semen, because it is mostly the same (without sperm of course). It tastes sweet, is about a teaspoon or two, it can be clear or milky. The Skeneā€™s glands open next to the urethral opening (pee hole). * Squirt or gushing - Fluid (mostly urine) being released in larger quantities from the bladder at various phases of sex. Some of it is just due to the contractions of the orgasm, some of it is due to various physical conditions like overactive bladder or incontinence, some of it is due to pressure being placed on the bladder sphincter muscle by fingers, toys or the penis (the so-called g-spot). Sometimes women are being taught to bear down and push out when they feel like they want to pee during sex. This helps the process of squirting/gushing. It is now also medical consensus that the g-spot does not exist in the female body. It lives in bad or old self-help books, articles, magazines, videos and web sites that never updated their own information after the research from the late 90ā€™s until today failed to show that there is anything physical that can be called a g-spot. Every vagina has spots that are more sensitive, and these needs to be discovered by each woman. The position where it was thought that the g-spot were, are close to the internal structures of the clitoral complex which goes about 15 cm into a womanā€™s body. Putting pressure on that spot, also puts pressure on the bladder and the bladder sphincter muscle. Note that none of this is bad. It is all part of a womanā€™s normal sexual response. It is often sought out and desirable for female and male partners. It often contributes to the pleasure from sex and orgasm, for both partners.

What is this?

I had this egg white cervical mucus 6 days ago, now my period is 5 days out. Just wondering what this could mean/be?

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Last reply Jun 7, 2023

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Spotting

Sexual harassment

Today, on my last day as a driver trainee, my trainer pulled out his dick and started jacking off. Yes, you read that right. On our way back to the ā€œyardā€ where we park our trucks we pulled into a truck stop about an hour away so we could use the restroom and whatever else, no big deal. When I got back to the truck I was getting ready to start the truck up and he said ā€œno, wait.. I really want to show you my dick right nowā€ I was absolutely blindsided and frightened honestly, I said ā€œare you going toā€ and he pulled it out so fast. He told me he wanted it in my mouth and was asking me to touch it and show him my boobs. I told him NO and I wanted to get back on the road. He literally came into his free hand right beside me šŸ¤® like WTF šŸ˜° mind you, he has a wife of 7 years and a 4 year old daughter. The days prior he would tell me about all of his sexual fantasies and literally showed me naked pictures of himself and his wife. I brushed it off and didnt make a big deal out of it. I even forced myself to compliment him, which was SO STUPID of me šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I needed to tell someone and vent but Iā€™m posting anonymously because I donā€™t want this to follow me publicly.

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Last reply Jan 29, 2024

No

i hope you reported him. For all we know hes abusing his children. this is not normal behavior

Advice for BDSM

Me and my boyfriend are doing a BDSM relationship. I know it's not as common but he's more submissive and I'm more dominant. We've been really talking about it and want to try a scene. Any advice would be great! We already have a safe word.

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Last reply Dec 21, 2024

Ju

Work on it slowly. Communicate often. Do NOT look to porn for your ā€œeducationā€. Aftercare is VITAL! We learned the value of aftercare the hard way. My husband and I eased into BDSM, at his request. He is a very type alpha personality. I have always been a submissive wife, but sexual submission was new to me. Once I learned my role and embraced it, it became a huge turn on. However, we struggled with the aftercare. After he would discipline me or degrade me in a scene, while I enjoyed it in the moment, I started to dwell on it afterwards. I would reject his advances to try to provide aftercare and I just wanted to be left alone. Then feelings of resentment would set in. But the next time we got there, Iā€™d want to be degraded or submitted again. Once I started letting him hold me and rub my back and romance me and tell me how well I had done and how happy I had made him, it made so much better. All the after scene resentment went away. Now we do some pretty kinky stuff together and we love it. BDSM can make or break a relationship. Itā€™s not as easy as Fifty Shades of Gray wants to make it seem. It takes a ton of trust and communication and working together.
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Last reply Jan 5, 2024

Ta

Yes

No labido or pleasure

I'm 23 and come from a very strict family and i didn't even know that girls get any kind of pleasure. I started dating my bf when i was 21 and we r still together and going strong. I love him so much and find him attractive but I'm not getting turned on by anything this days. Its been almost a year and he doesn't even finish because he sees that I'm not enjoying it. We tried foreplay, him going down on me,... a lot of things but nothing worked and I'm always dry as hell and not turned on. Sometimes its even painful when he enters a little. I don't know what to do. I went to the hospital and there is nothing wrong with me the doctor even laughed when i was about to cry. Please help i just feel broken. And i get a panic attack thinking about this never changing and living the rest of my life just envying ppl when they say they are horny.

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Last reply Jul 28, 2024

Ca

First that doctor was a jerk and horribly incensitive. 2nd do you take any medications that can kill labido?

Size / First time question

hi ladies, so I havenā€™t really done much of anything with anyone except this really nice, sweet guy. Iā€™m 23 and have never had a relationship or had sex yet but him and I are talking about it šŸ«¶šŸ¼ but since Iā€™ve never had it I have a small concern. When we were flirting last night I got him to tell me how big it is and he said 7 :) which is great and I think thatā€™s pretty big, especially since Iā€™m pretty small & only 5ā€™1. The thing is Iā€™ve noticed people saying that it usually grows if theyā€™re really aroused, & heā€™s always telling me I turn him on a lott and how he gets really super turned on making out with me, he usually has to stop and recompose himself which I love lol.I was just wondering how many more inches it usually grows when they feel like that or if that happens if theyā€™re already quite big? I donā€™t mind at all Iā€™m just curious since the only concern I have would be that it might hurt a little, I also havenā€™t done anything at all with myself either & I donā€™t even wear tampons because it hurt me when I first tried it. I know I would like being with him but Iā€™m curious & would like some help with this concern! I assumed when ladies talk size it was straight forward answer but it seems that there might be more to it than I thought? lol thank you!

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Last reply Mar 6, 2023

Ma

Most guys usually give you the size when its hard anyway, so he likely means hes 7 inches when hes fully hard. Regardless, different men grow differently. Ever heard of the saying, are you a grower or a shower? Some dont really get any bigger, its stays the same size, just gets hard. Some are really small when soft, and they can grow loads and get massive when hard. So all men are totally different. But yeah, he likely means hes 7 inches when fully hard. Iā€™d possibly suggest masturbating yourself first so you can get to know your body and get your body used to sexual stuff, but its okay if you dont want to. If you want to lose your virginity to him just make sure you use lots of lube and he goes really gentle, positions like you on top so you can control it going in and out would be better.

I'm so confused with my body

I haven't had a period since Dec 28th because i have pcos. I had sex on February 10th and 14th I took a pregnancy test maybe 4 days ago and it was negative. Now I'm having cramps, extremely nauseous and the past 2 day I've had light bright red spotting. Is my period coming or is it something else my friend keeps telling me I'm pregnant but the test was negative

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Last reply Mar 25, 2023

M

i would suggest booking a doctor appointment to eliminate anything
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Last reply Jun 5, 2023

me

From the side, fake, from the front, real

Boyfriend canā€™t make me cum and opposes toys

Let me start off by saying I love my boyfriend and I donā€™t want to leave him. Weā€™ve been having sex for about a year now and the amount of times Iā€™ve orgasmed with him is less than ten. In these instances that Iā€™ve orgasmed with him, itā€™s him playing with my nipples and me grinding on him. I literally do all the work! I coulda done that by myself. Donā€™t get me wrong, itā€™s hot, but thatā€™s the only way?! He doesnā€™t last long enough for me to get REAL sexual pleasure with vaginal sex. He has only initiated oral on me like three times and ALL the other times I had to ask him. Iā€™ve asked him if thereā€™s something wrong with my taste or smell but he swears on everything thatā€™s not it. He says his neck starts to hurt. Girl šŸ˜ But anyways a month ago I told him that I think it would be a good idea if I got a toy that we use during sex. He was very off put by that idea and kind of whined a little. So I said ok if you canā€™t make me consistently cum at least once every time we have sex, by our anniversary (in 3 months) Iā€™m gonna get a vibrator. He reluctantly agreed and I could see him really trying for a good week and a half. Today, itā€™s been ab a month since we made that agreement and he came twice and wanted to go again a couple hours later. I really just looked at him with a blank face and said no thank you cause I knew he wasnā€™t going to do anything to get me wet at all. He is the type to go in dry if I agree to sex right then and there. I donā€™t know what to do now because I really am fed up. I feel like just bringing in the vibrator NOW whether he likes it or not but I donā€™t want to be petty or have bad communication. Iā€™ve made him cum 7 times in the span of 4 hours and I consistently make him cum at least 2-3 times EVERYTIME. I love doing it but Iā€™m getting tired atp. Someone give me guidance please

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Last reply Jul 7, 2023

De

Use toys. Him not liking it is a HIM problem and a selfish one at thag. I personally have a hard time getting off without mine and my partner accepts that, as should any partner.

What should I do

My last period was Dec 28 -jan2, I was having regular periods but they stopped I have pcos and diabetes. I had unprotected sex on Feb 10th and 14th and just started feeling really nauseous and having sugar drops since yesterday which is weird because my sugar is always high. I don't know when or if I ovulated and also don't know if it's too soon to test. What should I do?

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Last reply Feb 22, 2023

H

Around 2 weeks from unprotected sex is when you can start testing unless your period decides to come

Positive ovulation test

Iā€™m in the processing of switching bcs from a combo pill to a mini pill (using to prevent pregnancy we have a 2yr old and donā€™t want our next one quiet yet) , I had to switch cause I was bleeding 24/7 on the combo pill and had no clue what was a period and what wasnā€™t.. with that being said Iā€™m currently 4 days into my new bc which is the mini pill, however last night I was really nauseous and felt sick and today had really bad cramps and extra discharge so i took a ovulation test an it popped up positive right away.. Me and my husband havenā€™t had ā€œ protected sexā€ with a condom but he pulls out and we still are having it even in the middle of transferring bcs I was just wondering what are the chances of getting pregnant and why Iā€™m still ovulating on birth control TIA

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Last reply Feb 21, 2023

:) stressed out

So Iā€™m so horny, like I want my bfs dick 24/7 I love everything about it, how it curves and how thick and long it is. Itā€™s perfect for my pussy, whenever we fuck he always has to cum in me and the harder he fucks my pussy just falls in love. Heā€™s taller and stronger than me so just being pinned down while he shoves his dick in me til Iā€™m crying is perfect.Lately heā€™s been sucking on my tits to sleep; it drives me crazy.The part where Iā€™m struggling is sucking his dick, Iā€™ve only done it a few times but it makes me gag and he precums so much. How can I get better? Weā€™ve been arguing more and I just wanna suck his cock to make it better.Heā€™s sleeping right now with my tits in his mouth and all Iā€™m thinking about is riding his cock until Iā€™m filled. :(

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Last reply Mar 16, 2023

Br

maybe try some flavored lube to make it more enjoyable for yourself?!

Price complaints. Any one else notice this?

Iā€™ve heard a lot lately about people complaining about the prices the women set for their videos. Iā€™ve heard complaints that $5 is too much or so is $15-35 meanwhile itā€™s like think of it why would a girl spend all the money on her hair, makeup, nails, outfit, etc for you to say $5 or more is too much šŸ¤£.

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Last reply Feb 17, 2023

W

Because some people don't realize how much it cost to get hair, makeup and nails done. It's expensive to look good

To the woman who like anal

How do you ease the pain after slightly rough anal??My boyfriend and I did it, and normally it's sore but not PAINFUL after. But this time I'm actually in pain from it, plus my stomach is kinda upset too. Which means I'm going to the bathroom a lot. So are their any ways to help ease the pain???

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Last reply Sep 2, 2023

To

If the muscles are spasmodic and it feels basically like youā€™re trying to hold in a big sh**, do Kegal exercises, it will help reset your sphincter and stop the pain fairly quickly.

Trying to get pregnant

I'm always on peak

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Last reply Feb 7, 2023

Sa

It can sometimes take a while to get pregnant! So donā€™t feel bad if it doesnā€™t happen immediately. The average couple can sometimes take a year before they get pregnant. Just keep on keeping track of your ovulation! Sending baby dust āœØāœØāœØ
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Last reply Dec 21, 2024

Ju

Iā€™m not sure whoā€™s creepier. You or him? The level of everything wrong with this post is high! This is how women get trafficked!

El

Always trust your gut instinct, if something seemed off to you when you met and you didnā€™t want to hang out, thatā€™s your answer. Your gut knows

Moms who smoked šŸƒ after breastfeeding

I was a pretty heavy šŸƒ smoker before I got pregnant and stopped whenever I found out. I breastfed my baby for the first month and it was really hard for me (I was barely producing enough to feed her) so I ended up switching her to formula. She has been exclusively formula fed for 3 weeks now and I have been smoking meanwhile. But Iā€™m starting to feel guilty and like Iā€™m choosing šŸƒ over my kid. And I should have tried to increase my supply before switching. (I wouldnā€™t keep smoking if I breastfed her, not that Iā€™m against moms who do itā€™s just my personal preference ā¤ļø)My question is, has anyone breastfed after smoking or continued to smoke during breastfeeding? Did it have any effects on your child?(Also bonus points if anyone knows how long it takes to not be in your breastmilk after stopping)

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Last reply Feb 3, 2023

Co

I can take up to 6 days for THC to leave your breastmilk.