Dear Anonymous
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Dear ****** and ***
Dear ****** and ***I wish I had known that you were trying to Groom me sexually. I wish I knew that you being nice , gaining my trust , taking me places asking me to do things for you . Texting me inappropriately, gaining the trust of my brother . Grabbing my butt , rubbing up against knowing no one would believe me . You would give me extra attention , make me feel special . I couldn’t tell nobody want you were doing to me. You would schedule just you and me to work in the morning until someone else came to work / when we open . *** I wish you would’ve Told that ****** was like this from the start you claimed to be my friend and knew he was like this all along . You waited until he got fired to tell me that he told you I had a nice ass and he want to **** me WHY?!? It’s so hard me to trust anyone while working. Why/How did I miss the red flags 🚩?!? -Anonymous
Last reply Nov 14, 2019
dear **** *** *****
please, i dont feel comfortable with you talking with my bf. i dont feel comfortable with u wearing his clothes and calling him for hours. i dont feel comfortable with you pouring your heart out to him. i dont feel comfortable with you dancing with him at the school dance. i dont feel comfortable with you stealing him away so he wont talk to me. i dont feel comfortable knowing that you have a girlfriend and yet you are still doing this to rub it in my face that you are closer to him than i am. i dont feel comfortable with you sitting next to him everyday in class. i dont feel comfortable with you calling him a sweetheart and going on about how sweet he is to you. i want you to stop. if you are my friend you need to just stop and stay the fuck away from him. please.
Last reply Nov 14, 2019
Dear people
Stop promoting obesity. Unhealthy is unhealthy.
Last reply Nov 18, 2019
Mi
Dear Miley and Nick
I'm still hoping you guys end up together somehow at the end of all this.
Last reply Nov 15, 2019
Li
Dear Teenage Boy- be nice to your future wife
Dear teenage boy, don’t play with that girls heart when she’s so quickly opened up to you and put her walls down for you. Don’t fuck her best friends and then turn around and tell her that you love her and you don’t remember doing any of it. Be careful what girls emotions you’re playing with and hurting, because you never knew it... but she is now your future wife. And you could’ve saved her so much agony and heart break if you would’ve been honest about it in the past...but now her heart is broken and the foundation of your relationship has crumbled. Be smart and don’t give in to every girl that you meet, cherish that soul that you connect with so well and keep your future in mind when making hasty decisions.
Last reply Nov 11, 2019
Boyfriends best friend ...
My boyfriend and I went to my boyfriends best friends house yesterday to build a shed from like 10 am to 930 pm and of course I was watching them but every time my boyfriend wasn’t near his best friend, his best friend would stare at me . And when I looked at him he would look away. After they were done with the shed we were all sitting and talking and he would only look at me when I was talking cause my boyfriend was right there. Normally he wouldn’t start a conversation with me unless my boyfriend was no where around. And then we had a fire and he was doing everything he could to make me laugh. Then messaged me today (normally he messages my BF) and said thanks for coming I had a really good time. What do y’all think?
Last reply Nov 12, 2019
K`
Over thinking idiot check
I’m honestly so afraid to say no to anyone when it comes to sexual activities cause I’m like afraid they’re never going to talk to me again or like lose interest even when it’s not always like that... Idk what to do, cause I feel like if I want a guy to like me i HAVE to do something with them...Like help please
Last reply Nov 13, 2019
Ja
Intuition or something else, please help.
I’m having a really hard time understanding what happened several weeks ago. I chalk it down to intuition but is there really such a thing or was it Gods way if saying you need to do this? I have a really close coworker I’ve known for several years. We talk pretty much every work day and have checked on each other during natural disasters. We never hang out after work or on weekends- so would say it’s strictly a working relationship between the two of us. Well several weeks ago as I was leaving work, there were emergency vehicles parked in front of our building. At first I didn’t think much of it. Then as walking out I got an uneasy feeling. Little signs that are usually around that tells me my coworker has left weren’t there. As I’m walking towards my car I’m looking around and noticed my coworker hasn’t left yet, and neither has another coworker. This is very unusual and I immediately said out loud. Oh my God something isn’t right and that’s not good. I immediately started praying that my coworker would be ok. I’m not one to normally pray but but something told me I needed to. I sat and prayed and asked for my coworker to be ok. And then I felt better and went on my way and felt at ease. The next morning I received a text out of the blue asking if I knew how my friend was. I was confused. Come to find out it was my coworker that I had an uneasy feeling about that the emergency personnel were there for. Without posting all the information- I will say my coworker is a walking miracle. Survival rate is less than 5% for patients that are in the hospital that had this medical condition. Still a road to recovery ahead, but no long term negative affects from everything. I don’t know what it was or how I knew my coworker needed my prayers. don’t get me wrong, I’ve been praying every night for healing for this coworker, I’m just having a hard time with why I knew my friend was the one being worked on by the ems, and needed prayers. I just want to understand - and maybe that will help me understand why I’m feeling the way I am as I don’t consider myself the religious type.
Last reply Nov 10, 2019
I'm finally starting to be whole again
For the past 2 years, you kept a stolen piece of my heart that I believed I would never get back. ThenThen you hurt me. Time and time again you hurt me. But I was in love and you were hurting, so I forgave you and kept you close. I was in love and I felt I would die without you while I was dying with you. I was confused why our friends said I should break up with you, that you were unhealthy for me. Surely they just didn't understand how much we needed each other? Surely they couldn't really mean that we would just end in pain?But when I met you for the first time, like a flash of a premonition, I saw that we would be together, and that it would all end in hurt, but foolishly I disregarded my own gut feeling and gave you my heart.When I finally broke up with you, it felt like I was tearing myself in two. I hated myself for hurting you such, but I knew that if I didn't, things would just get worse. And I didn't want to know where that would lead me. ThenThen I started to heal. I was helped by my now boyfriend and he patiently started to piece my heart back together. However, the last piece of the puzzle remained with you. You guarded it jealously, reminding me that I could never truly love him while you still held on to that last piece. But thenThen you made your final mistake. I came to you, to you instead of him, when I was hurt beyond anything I'd been hurt by before. You took that hurt and you multiplied it tenfold. I told you that one of my closest friends had assaulted me and you, one of the people who I thought I could trust with anything and everything in my life, proceeded to rip out the last of my trust. You held me down and told me that since I wasn't pushing you off it meant I wanted it while in my head was just turmoil. ThenThen you made me think I was a cheater and you tried to tear me apart like that, all while he was the one patiently picking up the pieces, ignorant of what you had done because your last act of . Finally, in a moment of drunken clarity, I called you out. I understood you for who you were: the first love of my life but not the last. I could live without you and I saw your "love" of the last 2 years for the mental and emotional manipulation and torture it was. Since thenI've taken back the piece that used to belong to you. All the other shards are falling back into place bit by bit, but at least you can no longer dangle that above me while I dance for your amusement. You can't hold me back from my own happiness that doesn't include you. And I fully intend to reach for that happiness and leave you behind.I hope you find your happiness. It's just not going to be with me.
Last reply Nov 13, 2019
Cr
“What would we do without him?”
“What would we do without him?” You say, while also talking about how he needs to move out and be more independent, yet taking over $200 out of his account for “rent and utilities.”How is he supposed to be able to afford a real apartment rent of $750 plus utilities when you’re taking his money like it’s normal. He buys you groceries.Tithes $90.“Treats” you to breakfast, lunch, dinner more than once a week.And then you have him pay “rent and utilities.”When did he stop being your son and started being your second bank account?He does your laundry, cleans the house, and give his money away like it’s nothing because that’s all he’s known since he was barely 16. The man is 29 now and you’re still treating him like he’s a teenager at his first job.You wonder why he talks to himself, has high blood pressure, and zero confidence. Look at yourself for once and stop acting like you’d be nothing without him. You both work, we’re able to afford the house before he started working, you made it work, but now, all you want to spend your money on is luxuries.“Oh, my iPad glitched, better get a new one!”“ugh, I don’t like my phone, better get a different one!”“Oh! This new $60 video game is out! I’m gonna get it!”“Time for a new game system!”“Time for a new smart tv, FOR THE BEDROOM!”Stop it. Just STOP IT! While she was drunk when she said it, grandma was right. He is nothing but a slave to you guys.I am so happy I got out when i did. I saw how horrible my life would have been if I stayed and became your 3rd bank account. When I wasn’t looking for a new job because I new it was pointless to have a new full time job for a mere two months before moving an hour away, you were going crazy because you couldn’t use me anymore.When I told you to no longer count me as a dependent since I was married and moved out, you threw a fit because you lost more money; that’s how taxes work, get over it.So, what would you do without my brother? Come back to reality or die because you can’t face the truth. You entitled pos.
Last reply Nov 8, 2019
to the cute girl who sits in front of me
Holy shit you’re gorgeous. And your voice is so soft and beautiful I could just listen to you talk all day. Your eyes are bluer than summer sky and your smile melts my heart. You’re the colors pearl, gold and navy. I don’t know if you’re into me, at all really. I don’t even know if you like me. I’m so bad at reading you, but that might just be because every time you look at me my head starts spinning. I want to get to know you but I’m too scared to talk to you. Maybe one day I’ll get up the courage to start a conversation, even if it’s over social media. I don’t care, I just want to get to know you because I’ve never met someone who I’ve instantly fell for like this.
Last reply Nov 17, 2019
Ch
Cheating on me with ex
I’ve been with my “fiancé” for 6 years now, and through out our relationship he’s always been in contact with his ex, he’s cheated on me multiple times with her, blocks her to only unblock her and communicate with her again. She’s also engaged herself. And our wedding was cancelled a month before the due date due to finding out he was sexting with her again. I know at this point my self esteem is non existent and I feel completely worthless but I’ve dealt with this for so long it no longer hurts me. I know leaving is the best thing to do, but I’m currently not working due to medical reasons, and the only reason I’m staying right now is because I’m going to be under his insurance and need to have surgery done.... Which makes it so much harder. I just needed to vent.
Last reply Nov 7, 2019
An
Our toxic relationship
I came on here to vent and make myself feel better because once again your trying to belittle me and make me feel small...well dad, I think I’m finally done. I’m finally done looking for your love and approval! I don’t care if your mad at me and at this point I don’t even care if you wanted to try to make things right. I don’t care to pretend like you didn’t say harmful words every morning because guess what..you DID. And things you say mean something. I’ve kept my mouth shut out of knowing that I need to be respectful to you but I can respect you and still not have anything to do with you. So when I make you feel invisible to me like you have made me feel all those times...don’t sit back and wonder why. Because you KNOW why. I’m not chasing a relationship with you anymore and even if I could have one..I don’t want it anymore. I don’t want to be around you. I don’t want to talk to you. I don’t want to look at you. I don’t want to think about you. I just want to navigate the world without someone trying to make it that much harder for me. I never and would never treat a person like you have treated me. You really hurt me tonight. I’m shaking all over because I’m so hurt and angry. But typical me I do this alone and I never show you the repercussions of your energy. Well. That’s done. Im not pushing it down and faking my smile tomorrow morning when you ask about work. I have half a mind to not even answer you. And you wonder why I have anxiety. Because you fucked with my head and now I try to protect myself by thinking about every next move. Like you just saw I’m already thinking about how I’m going to react tomorrow and I haven’t even slept the night away yet. And with my anxiety who knows if I’ll have the balls to have my own back come morning. I’m a very forgiving person and I move on too fast and I don’t hold people accountable and that’s probably my dads fault too. I know holding him accountable won’t do anything so why try. Now I let anyone and everyone close enough to hurt me and still feel shocked when they do just that. I will fight against you even if my mom won’t. My moms gone and mind fucked by you and now she’s just a shell of who she could be. But you don’t like people knowing they are worth anything huh. My poor mom. She could leave and find someone who actually treats her right. But she will stay because she doesn’t feel like she could do it. Even though she had the house and bought the car when you two first met. She got you on your feet. She gave you a job and now you hold that very job that makes money over her head? Who the FUCK do you think you are? Without her you’d still be a homeless nobody drinking himself in and out of prison. Oh but that’s right YOUR FUCKING KING and we all need to be quiet and do what you say. Little does my dad know, he needs to learn HIS FUCKING PLACE because with the kind of person he is, money is the only reason everyone hasn’t left him high and dry to love all of his money all by his miserable self. I need to make it in life so I can get out of here and take my mom with me before we really are nothing from his constant abuse.
Last reply Nov 7, 2019
Some Help Please?...
I recently got together with my boyfriend. He’s not the first person I’ve dated though... We’ve known each other for 3 years now but only just recently got together. A few days ago, we kissed for the first time. Don’t get me wrong, I loved it! But it was my first kiss and I’m a little confused now...I can’t stop thinking about the kiss, how it felt, and how much I want to kiss him again. Is this normal?
Last reply Nov 14, 2019
ka
Dear mother in law I see what game you’re playing
Dearest mother in law is I see you are playing game but trust me you will not finish it before me.Last night while you were watching tv entire night and sleeping today entire day (I don’t care honestly,but if you want to sleep why you don’t go to your room to get your sleep?But you rather sleep in living room so I need to keep my mouth shut and your son also).But after you woke up I make lunch you eat and tell me : oh I was so hungry I didn’t eat last night at all.Wait what?! Your son is sitting there and what did you expect from him to start yelling at me maybe?And I told you you could eat something from fridge (just at your house because you’re lazy to make anything).“Oh but nothing is there to eat” “Well you had eggs,sardines,tuna,deli meat,and you also had leftovers from lunch if you are too hungry”.So no my dear mother in law I respect you because you’re my husbands mom but whatever you trying to play while he is here you will not succeed.Trying to make me look bad like everything is locked from you and you were starving.(She came for visit for one week)
Last reply Nov 6, 2019
Dear person
Please stop being a brat and a b***h to me x you’re only doing it for attention xPs. Please learn to straighten the back of your hair
Last reply Nov 7, 2019
Ru
Dear crush
Without you, I’m broken. I’m not happy anymore, I’m not the way I used to be w u, why did u let go. Why did u block me when we cld have been so much more, why didn’t u tell me u wanted to move to America next year. Just so u know I miss u
Last reply Nov 5, 2019
Dear Jordyn
Not to be rude but tbh I don't get how you're promoting or selling a gym plan. I don't think being overweight is healthy.
Last reply Nov 16, 2019
jo
Dear neighborhoods from my home all the way to work
I’m so sorry you have to listen to me twice a night 5 times a week scream-singing out my problems before and after work , love the pretty girl down the block P.s thanks for not calling the cops for how loud I am🤦♀️
Last reply Nov 5, 2019
Dear Bestie
I know I can be a pain. I know I can be really annoying I get reminded a lot. I know Im short please dont bring it up. I you dont know how to help me. All you can do is be there for me. I know Im not the funnest person or nicest. Thanks for putting up with me.
Last reply Nov 5, 2019
ka