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questioning my sexuality

when I was in 8th grade i fell in love with my best friend, Sophia. I felt like I could tell her anything in the world and when she brushed up against me or nudged me I felt tingly and warm on the inside. of course i didn't know what it meant. I've only ever felt that way around two other people since then: a guy named Cody and a girl named Nora. my boyfriend that I dated for 4 months I didn't even feel that way around. idk if I'm bi or lesbian or what. i feel like I need to experiment and branch out before I decide to tell anyone anything.

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Last reply Jan 25, 2019

El

This is exactly what happened to me except I lost my friendship with her when I told her

Help me pleaseee

So I’m bisexual and I need help coming out. Anyone got any tips??

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Last reply Jan 16, 2019

Lo

Tell everyone you trust

Any asexual people here trying to conceive?

Haha, I've lurked here for a bit but I've been wondering this since joining Glow.The TL;DR here is I'm 33 years old and I've been wanting to have a child for years. I'm not in a relationship at the moment (I'm leaning more aromantic the older I get) and have started seeking out ways to conceive. I was just curious if any other aces are in the same boat and other methods you've tried and or considered while conceiving. Any advice or thoughts?

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Last reply Jan 19, 2019

iv

You could opt for iui co parenting with him insemination many options

I have a crisis (not really but pls help)

Sooo I came out as a lesbian to me friends a while ago. I figured it out like “ I don’t wanna fuck guys and every time I’m trying to date them I have anxiety so that means I’m prolly gay yay”. Welll after that I tried to date girls too but I noticed it gives me the same anxiety. Also sex is just meh for me no matter which gender I’m having it with. So I have figured out that I’m asexual. I’m very embarrassed to come out to my friends again. I don’t want anyone to think that I’m just confused. It’s super hard for me to open up to someone. Do any of u have any ideas how I can come out to my friends as asexual after coming out as a lesbian.

I have a crisis (not really but pls help)
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Last reply Jan 18, 2019

Ni

Well , I think you should deal with your anxiety regarding sexual intimacy first before ascribing to any label. Your friends should be supportive of you as a person and you figure it out.

Baby dust wish us luck

Me an my gf will be doing our 2nd home insemination this Wednesday I’ve been on prenatal pills an taking geritol for bout a month now so we are hoping for best results this time fingers crossed an heart heavy for blessings this go round

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Last reply Jan 13, 2019

Is this bad?

Me and my fiancé are usually a very happy couple. We haven’t ever really argued before. We’ve been together for 8 months. Recently, we’ve been having these weird days/nights. We get upset over something, and then we just don’t talk for an hour or more. It’s usually when we’re just emotional because of our periods or something. But it’s starting to happen like a few times a week or more. And usually when this happens, I’m always the one to start talking again and apologizing. It happened tonight, and it’s been over an hour, and we’ve just been laying next to each other without speaking. I’ve been waiting for her to say something, since i always do and she hasn’t. I’m just not sure if this is the start to something bad.. Is this healthy? Is it bad? I’m just started to get upset about it happening all the time and I’m not sure what to do.

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Last reply Jan 27, 2019

Sy

You absolutely need to be honest about this with your partner. From what you’re telling us, it seems like you’ve been putting more emotional effort into fixing conflict in your relationship than they have been. Things won’t change for the better if your keep all those feeling inside. Because then they will bottle, and stew inside you until one day all hell breaks loose and the aftermath might be too devastating to fix.Perhaps try seeing a couples therapist?

No pain during ovulation!!

Tryna find out if I’m the only one or NOT!???

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Last reply Mar 28, 2019

Na

Me neither. Not really. I have very dull pain in my kidney area. I have PCOS too tho. Make me think I have endometriosis sometimes

Im Pansexual

So like im a 15yo pansexual orphan living with my uncle, who is very homophobic and I hate hiding who I am all the time. Especially now that I have met this girl that I am absolutely smitten about. Any advice? Or someone to vent to..

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Last reply Jan 27, 2019

Sy

Do you think you would not feel safe if you told him?

Trans dad.. *update*

I’m having a hard time with my pregnancy because I’m trans... I love my baby girl but I never expected to get pregnant and I’m having a hard time excepting my body when it (now more than ever) doesn’t feel like my body. I still haven’t come out to my family and I’m afraid to teach my baby that I’m not moma I’m dada. My family is very religious and think that transgender people have a serious mental illness and need therapy (I don’t disagree on the therapy but the fact is that they aren’t excepting) and it would make it so much worse if they knew that I considered myself a GAY man 😪 I’m struggling back and forth on what I should do.. give up on myself and focus on my baby and give her the chance to be loved by her family or tell my family the truth about me and risk losing everyone 😔Update/response I’m only 16 and my boyfriend (17) lives 2 states away atm 😔 I had to move with my mom and her husband for his work and I know no one where I am. My mom will definitely not let me move out and I have at least 2 years before I can leave.. it’s less about feeling like my daughter won’t except me and more about I know my family won’t and I’m afraid that if I show my daughter that I’m dad and not mom and she says something around my family they will completely expel us from their lives.

Trans dad.. *update*
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Last reply Jan 21, 2019

Ri

I’m so sorry you’re in this situation, I kinda know what thats like. Im trans to and 7 months along and while I have a safety net so things will be okay I am also worried that everyone will push my baby to see me as mommy and not papa. It can be really hard, I’m here if ya ever need someone to talk to!

Just needed support

My wife and I are separated, but she said she’d always be here for me. Well, today is the “anniversary” of my sisters death. She was 12 when she passed, she’d be 32 this year. It’s still not easy, last night my kids and I couldn’t sleep, as if they knew. I texted my wife this morning for support and she said she was sleeping, and basically told me to fuck off even after telling her what today was. Then said I was pushing her away when she was “trying to be here for me”. Asked me what I wanted from her, I asked her if she could watch the kids while I do laundry it would help a lot instead of lugging them down the stairs. She basically said no. She was just “trying to be here for me”. Ugh 😭

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Last reply Jan 11, 2019

Fr

Yeah, I'd say divorce her. You n those precious babies of yours don't need any of that negativity. Y'all made a promise—a vow together. For her to not do her obligation as a wife and take care of them kids is against the eyes of the court when it comes to marriage. Cut her out n move on. Wish you the best!

New friends 👀

Looking for new friends in Lafayette area!

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Last reply Jan 11, 2019

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Last reply Feb 17, 2019

Ah

I'm Bisexual myself

Currently on our second donation this week and got 3 more to go . Wish us luck . We gave up after 3 cycles last year . Honestly it wasn’t a good time for us .. but here we are again and ready for whatever journey comes our way 🌻☀️❤️

Currently on our second donation this week and got 3 more to go . Wish us luck . We gave up after 3 cycles last year . Honestly it wasn’t a good time for us .. but here we are again and ready for whatever journey comes our way 🌻☀️❤️
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Last reply Jan 19, 2019

Ja

Long as you track ovulation correctly y’all just need one donation. but good luck 💯

Trans Dad

My long distance girlfriend and I have 4 young children, 3 from previous relationships and 1 we became guardians of together. Her and the kids are my absolute world and they’re about to move just 30 minutes away from me. The bond I have with the kids is amazing but what if I’m not what they expect?

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Last reply Jan 10, 2019

Kr

Just breathe ....If your gf loves you I am sure the kiddos will too. Be your amazing self and love with your whole heart.❤🧡💛💚💙💜

Coming out

So I’m pansexual and I want to tell the world I am but I’m afraid of judgement and rumours. My boyfriend who I love so much is the only person that knows but he respects me unconditionally. What do I do? Who do I tell first?? Please help

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Last reply Jan 19, 2019

iv

I’m proudly Pan but people don’t come out as straight so I don’t feel the need to come out people who I care about who know me know and I talk openly about it I don’t need to shout anything to people I don’t even care about lol

Big girl love❤❤

Big girl love❤❤
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Last reply Jan 9, 2019

Me and my brother from another everyting❤❤😂

Me and my brother from another everyting❤❤😂
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Last reply Jan 12, 2019

An

Y’all both cute 😘

Vi

Wtf is happening with our culture lolYour self image shouldn’t bind your self worth. Be more than a pretty face and you’ll be happy 😍

Gf needed

I so need a gf... Someone to give all my love and affection toooo, buuut... Hey I'm slept on bruh

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Last reply Jan 10, 2019

De

Same