40+ & Pregnant
Whether this is your 1st or 5th baby, this group is for all mamas over 40.
Creator: Zach
Members: 86,409
Is this for real?
Last reply Jul 20, 2019
Hurt tummy
What would you do if your 4-year-old jumped on your pregnant belly? I'm almost 18 weeks and scared since she jumped on me today. Slight pain in belly.
Last reply Jul 11, 2019
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We told everyone and now I’m nervous
This is our first pregnancy and the first time I’ve been able to carry past 6 weeks (I’m at 12w 5d). The NIPT test came back normal and the NT test was normal, so we decided to tell the family. Now I’m nervous about all the “what if’s” and variables that can happen at 40. I’ve had 2 miscarriages in the last 2 years so I’m always nervous about that. How did you all stay calm? Thank you for any advice!
Last reply Jul 27, 2019
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44, First IUI Soon!!
I recieved my Generic test back Wednesday out of 172 diseases i am a carrier of NONE. Praise God!.. Next Step. I'll choose my Donor today! With my Doctor's approval ill purchase my Swimmers Friday.They should Arrive by Tuesday at the latest. Next wait for my Cycle to start Meds. IUI Proceedure approximately 15 days later-Ovulation.Wait 2 weeks to see the Beutiful Bountiful Results!
Last reply Jul 4, 2019
1 hour glucose test...... UPDATE
Soooooo, my doctor called with my 1 hour glucose test results and I failed, I don't know what that means other than they have to test furthur. So I have to go back for more testing (3 hour test) on the morning of the 9th 9am in between that time I have to do carb loading meaning eat either 3 candy bars a day for 3 days straight or 6 pieces of bread for three days straight (Saturday Sunday and Monday and then fast from midnight until the appointment on Tuesday. This is the test for gestational diabetes. Is there anything else I should be doing? What does this mean if I fail again? Update: I passed the the hour test
Last reply Aug 30, 2019
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43 and 7 mos old and just got my + test result
I m writing to say it s been a year of trying and I know that's not ling compared to some of you.I pray U all get your BFP this year.💕I conceived at 42 and delivered a healthy baby ..he needs a sibling his age so praying this little bean is a sticky one.I did miscarry once in March but then took quitting caffeine more seriously and also took 800 mags more of folic acid n more omegas n Co enzyme Q10 too.More supplements seem great but I'm a breastfeeding mom so I didnt take.Keep hope n I will too
Last reply Jul 13, 2019
Ni
Trying for almost 5 years
I am 43 years old and have been trying for almost 5 years. I have been pregnant 5 times once with twins and lost all with exception of one from severe stress and one due to my age in July 2018.We have done 3 unsuccessful IUI’s and I just did a round of Accupuncture with Chinese herbs. Once again AF has arrived and I feel like giving up. I started TTC in my 30’s but with stress lost all my babies.I have been crying all day and I feel like I should just give up as my Bday is coming in November. My last resort is to do a detox and try one last time. I always wanted two more children but feel this will never happen.
Last reply Sep 1, 2019
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44 with a 23 year old baby
Is this real ladies...
Last reply Jul 5, 2019
sa
42 and very pregnant!!💋😘😘
I found out today that im pregnant!!! First try!! Me and fiance are so excited!! Dont give up hope ladies it can happen!! Baby dustings to all of you🎈🎉🥰
Last reply Jul 5, 2019
sa
Haven’t told anybody yet.
Hello, I am 47 and I just did a pregnancy test this week after trying for the first time in a very long time and I just found out I am pregnant! I have had 3 miscarriages in between having my daughter 6 years ago. Only my husband knows. I had to tell someone.I feel like a rock star right now.That’s all.
Last reply Dec 29, 2019
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Short leg and arm bones
Had anyone been told their baby has shorter leg and arm bones? I’ve had scans every 4 wks entire way through due to my placenta, 8 wks who they they really freaked me out saying leg bone was bit short, 4 wks later they said it was fine, this week they told me again they were short.... they seem to be growing continually but shorter than what they deem normal... they said most likely just short baby (me & my husband are both short) but they also tell you the 3% chances of it being a really serious problem... I’m 32 wks now & just want bub our as this is stressing me out so badly..
Last reply Sep 8, 2019
Ch
28 more days!
Baby boy is scheduled to make his arrival on 7/24/19. Only 28 more days, does not seem real.
Last reply Jun 27, 2019
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C-section/tubes tied
I am having a c-section in September and was going to have my tubes tied while doctor was already “in there”. Does anyone have any information and/or advice? I am wondering if the recovery time is same, longer, etc? Thanks so much!
Last reply Dec 30, 2020
Re
44 and in 2nd trimester.
Just got my materni21 results back today! Was praying for a healthy baby and God heard my pleas. Everything is great and I am having a girl! This will be my 8th baby. 2nd baby with my 2nd marriage. 4 boys and 4 girls. My youngest is 3 and I thought I would not be able to have another. Do not give up hope. Believe in yourself. Take care of your body. Only God knows when the timing is right. So happy!!!
Last reply Oct 30, 2019
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RE in NYC area that works with 40 plus women
Hey ladies, Anyone knows of a reproductive endocrinologist in the NYC area that has experience working with 40 plus women? I ask this question because few people in different forums have said that some doctors could be dismissive and recommend IVF through egg donor from the get go. This is a challenging time for me, and I need compassionate hand. Thanks a lot !!
Last reply Jun 22, 2019
Eu
42 years old and 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant
Hi ladies. Just wanted to let you all know that your fight for a baby is a beautiful one. What I did different the cycle we conceived? A hsg flush. Fell pregnant the same cycle. Please consider one if you haven’t had one done already. This is me with a super bloated belly today at 7 weeks and 4 days. 7th baby and I’m usually tiny post birth.
Last reply Jul 10, 2019
Fa
44 ready to start IUI
Recieved all of my bloodwork Friday. Found out I need the Chickenpox vaccination. Once I have it I have to wait 30 days before continuing with my IUI. This will set me back 1 possibly 2 cycles. Glad we caught the vaccine issue as I'm sure I'll be in and out of Drs offices with the little ones. Dont want to expose myself as an adult its life threatening to contract Chickenpox.. Minor set back but worth it.. Has anyone else experienced this or similar?
Last reply Jun 30, 2019
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That was fast!
I know they say you show a lot sooner after your first birth, but boy oh boy, I was NOT prepared for this. Admission: prior to getting pregnant with my 1st, I was underweight and due to a number of health and pregnancy circumstances gained 90 pounds. Until age 27, I weighed almost 300 pounds due to a severe autoimmune disorder and metabolic syndrome. So, now I’m still struggling with body dysmorphic disorder from being morbidly obese for so many years. I’ve been to counseling, and I have mostly good days but it’s always lurking in the back of my head. I don’t have an eating disorder, and I eat regularly and frequently. It’s psychological. This is where I’m at today. I really need some reassurance because your mind can really make you see things in a warped way. Don’t worry I’m eating like nobody’s business this time around, and very healthy, it’s just my head doesn’t let me see that I look pregnant rather than fat. Just really need some encouragement today. Please - no mean, or hurtful comments. I just need edification today. It takes a lot to admit this struggle, but 27 years of 300 pounds doesn’t disappear from the brain. Right now (I can’t believe I’m admitting this) I’m 206.3 and overall have lost over 30 pounds (NOT trying) due to my thyroid going nuts. I’ve never had that issue so I’m glad they figured it out before I had any massive issues. Current Pregnancy1st PregnancyThis was before and then 11 Weeks, 4 days.
Last reply Jun 16, 2019
42 and just found out I am preg with #3
I so need some reassurance here, this was so unexpected and not planned.. yes we didn’t practice safe sex because we have two kids and we have been married for 17 years. So no bashing me please!!!! I am very nervous because of my age. Anyone else out there?????
Last reply Aug 3, 2019
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