Interracial Couples

Where Women can give their input on there relationship with their mate etc♡

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My mixed race two princesses 💜💜

My mixed race two princesses 💜💜
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Last reply Oct 27, 2020

Isaiah Matthias born on 9/24. Mamas white, daddy's black.💙

Him and daddyMommy and him.

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Last reply Oct 18, 2020

Lo

Cute family

Maternity Shots! 💖💖💖

Our second, a boy, is due in December and we took some family pictures to commemorate our last weeks as a family of 3 and celebrate the final piece to our puzzle. He still does not have a first name but his middle is Azariah, it means God Helps in Hebrew as their father is 100% ashkenazi Jew. ☺️Our sweet little family including our pup, Theodore 🐶6 years with the most amazing man! Wedding is set for fall of 2021Side note: I made this crown 😭💖Our daughter is Indigo Adielle 💖💖💖 her middle is also Hebrew and means Ornament of God

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Last reply Sep 29, 2022

Ho

I just see so much love here and I see how much he supports you. You are g l o w i n g ✨ motherhood is beautiful on you ♥️

Migration process GREEN CARD

Hi, I got married in august and we want to start the green card progress, we had a lawyer but she started another job so now she can’t do it (we never got to talk to her, it was a friend’s friend) so now idk what look on a lawyer since I’ve heard so many stories of people getting scammed. If you went through this I’d be thankful if you share how you did it, I have no idea on anything, when do you pay for it? Like seriously I’m lost lol

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Last reply Oct 31, 2020

Y

My husband went through the CR-1 visa process to get his green card and just got his citizenship a few months ago. We never used an immigration lawyer. The directions on all of the USCIS forms are pretty easy to follow. Just read everything carefully and double check it all. There is also a website called Visa Journey that has a lot of information and lots of people going through the same process.

And its happening!!!!

And its happening!!!!
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Last reply Oct 12, 2020

Ma

Love the decor 🌈

Finally TTC

My husband and I celebrated four years of marriage a couple of months ago 💍💕we held off on starting a family to enjoy married life! Recently decided the time was right for us to start trying ❤️

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Last reply Jul 14, 2021

R

Yayyy! My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2, together for 7. We are going to start TTC this month! We are beyond excited.

Here we go again(didn't make it)

Sooooo.....yup. My big girl is about to make 7 months and she's going to be a big sister, planning on announcing Halloween*edit* I ended up losing baby bean 😔

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Last reply Sep 23, 2020

Em

Congratulations! 🎉 You have a beautiful family! ❤️

How to raise bilingual kids?

I am black and my husband is mexican from Mexico, Spanish is his first language. I want our kids to be bilingual but he doesn’t seem to be interested in teaching them, he says it’s too much work. He rarely speaks Spanish anymore (he’s not close to his family, he only speaks it at work when needed) so I started to learn Spanish to teach them when the time comes (I’m still TTC). Is this even possible with me not being fluent.. how long does it take to become fluent? I would say I’m in between beginner and intermediate atm, been studying for a little over a year. Or should I just drop the whole bilingual thing? Chances are pretty slim I guess, I just want them to have an upper hand in life. Anybody else have this issue? How did you handle it?

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Last reply Mar 3, 2024

Ma

How can I do this as a single mom? Just repeat each word in English and Spanish? She two so I’m a lil late.

Can’t wait to see what our son looks like

March 2021 👶🏽

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Last reply Sep 20, 2020

Lo

He's gonna be a handsome little man! My husband is white as well and I just can't seem to form a picture of how our blessing will look. Not sure of gender yet, but only a few more weeks until we find out. Congratulations you two!

Question?

Anyone on here! Have you ever tried using the pre seed lubricant fertility stuff? And it work? I’ve seen many positive and negative reviews. Been ttc for awhile now and I was told to use the product because it was highly recommended!!

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Last reply Sep 12, 2020

En

Pre seed is for woman that don’t produce enough fertile discharge or their ph is too acid I believe so if there is something else that need to be look after it won’t work ( it could be as simple as stress ) With my first pregnancy I used it and got pregnant right away and with my second pregnancy I didn’t and I got pregnant right away too . Have you tried vitamins to help you ovulate ?

My little half Korean half Caucasian baby. 🥰 She looks like her daddy.

My little half Korean half Caucasian baby. 🥰 She looks like her daddy.
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Last reply Jan 24, 2021

Ta

Your baby is so cute!💖 Did you give birth in korea? I am going to this summer and would love sum insight if you did, thank you.

I want my Chinese husband to include his family in our pregnancy.

I am white, American born and my husband is from China. My family uses Facebook to share updates and pictures. His family uses WeChat, the popular east Asian social media platform, the only one legal to use in China. I want to either be included on WeChat, although I think everything they say would be in Chinese, or I would like him to make himself a Facebook account and invite his parents or at least his mother to join so that she can stay updated. I find it hard to believe that his cousins that are our age and were born here don’t have Facebook accounts or Instagram or something. I want to see their children and just all over be connected. My husband doesn’t want to be involved with social media but he doesn’t seem to understand how important the blending of our two families is to me and how much social media can help with that, especially during this time where travel is so limited. Does anyone have any advice for getting my husband to understand where I am coming from? Or else advice on how to stay connected with a spouse’s family of a different culture especially where there is a language barrier?*Edit: My husband’s family is for the most part all in the US now. So they have access to anything they are just used to WeChat as a family.

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Last reply Sep 16, 2020

Va

Why would you make a request that your husband invite his Chinese-based family fo use Facebook when you’re fully aware that to do so could be to endanger his family? Surely you don’t think it’s that important. I’m not Chinese, but if I were him I wouldn’t even entertain the question. I think the gap in understanding here actually needs to be bridged by you, not your husband. While I completely understand wanting to share in this journey with them (CONGRATULATIONS BTW!!!!) I don’t think it’s very courteous to ask them to go out of their way to make fulfilling your desire more convenient/familiar for you... If you want to involve them in your pregnancy, determine what details you’re keen to share with them and reach out :) in my opinion, life isn’t lived on social media. Pick up a phone. Write a letter. Send an email. Take a cute video and have him translate, if necessary. He could even mimic you with his translation and wear a pillow under his shirt 😂 Or you could hire a translator and send lovely letters to his mom or something like that. I would absolutely start that sort of correspondence with my SO’s mother if she were overseas, and spoke a language that was unfamiliar to me.

I'm finally a married woman

So excited, I married the LOML on August 08,2020. We had a small intimate covid wedding and I wouldn't have had it any other way 💕We've been holding off on TTC cause we wanted to be married first. I'm so excited for this next journey in our lives to begin 💕

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Last reply Aug 24, 2022

Ti

Congratulations! You look so beautiful!

Racist Family

So long story short this past week my moms husband decided that he was going to talk about BLM and how all lives matter with his grandkids when my son (3) and I came over. He continued his nonsense even in our presence so we left and I told my mom it was unacceptable and we wouldn’t be around that crap. She asked us if we’d sit down and talk like adults. My husband and I agreed and she said she’d talk with hers and get back to me. I heard nothing for a week and then get a text that basically said no family dinner this week but next week lets go to a park. I am just beyond pissed. I’ve gone no contact until they ask to sit down and talk ( and change) bc no way will my kid get that crap from family. I’m really hurt by all this and just needed a space to vent.

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Last reply Sep 20, 2020

Sa

Interracial relationship here. You do realize that blm (the organization) has stated that they intend to destroy the "nuclear family"... I do not want to see the nuclear family (Mom, Dad, kids at home under one roof) destroyed, do you? BLM leaders have come out and said White lives don't matter and that is black supremacy, it is the same as white supremacy just different color. Blm is the equal of the KKK -IF- you cannot say each life matters. That is how the all the other races (except the US media) view blm with a very few exceptions. This is the beauty of being in a blended relationship you can see both sides. Posting this in an interracial forum I would expect there to be a meeting in the middle in your family. You must see the other side of this. Tough love but the USA needs it right now. Enough division over color.

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Last reply Aug 7, 2020

Big baby London Christopher Follin

Big baby London Christopher Follin
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Last reply Aug 4, 2020

Opinions please, bc I can’t even

Not that it’s necessary to say on anon, but I’m posting this for my homegirl to show her what other woman of all races think of this bullshit. My girl is 21 👩🏾‍🦱. Never been in a relationship before this. Been dating this 34 y/o guy 🧔🏼 for a few months and they vibed & she slept with him and now she’s twisted because it was her first time (excuse my bias, I’m mad).Well. This guy literally told her, “I may be white, but I have the soul of a black man.”She said she was so shocked by that that she didn’t even dignify it with a response because she wanted him to keep saying that dumb shit & expose himself. OK sis. Then why did u still go out with him? For her part, he hit her up over the course of some months and she decided she liked him. Fine. Then they shack up together after a while & he’s sitting here flipping out on Messenger bc his ex is telling her she’s PREGNANT and he’s like “that bitch is lying and I don’t want anything to do with it she’s crazy and a liar” and goes on to describe her and describes her as “she’s really black. Like she has these tattoos and it doesn’t even make sense you can’t even see them she’s that black.” ....................... I’m listening to this like, why is that necessary? She apparently asked the same and he’s like “in case you see her” 👀 but he shows her no photo. What kind of bullshit.... My girl asks him what kind of man he is to deny a child that could be his and he tells her to show proof of pregnancy but she never does, according to him. My girl snoops behind that and she gets on his Messenger, and snoops BEYOND that. And found out that he was talking about her w his buddies months and months ago. His friend was asking about his new girl and asked, “does she taste like nig?” & her man replies, “yeah she tastes like nig.” & goes on to talk about her body and whatnot. Homegirl did NOT say ANYTHING about it and they’ve been shacked up for a year now and this is what she tells me one night with a laundry list of other complaints. There are other issues. Plenty. But PLEASE let me know what you would have told her if you knew her based off THIS information alone.I told her I was gonna rant online about this and ask Eve about it so she could get opinions from someone other then me, because I was livid. She brought it up because it’s apparently always bothered her but she didn’t know what to do when she read that & it was before they started dating 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ She’s on board with the post, & is feeling conflicted because it’s her first love 💔

Opinions please, bc I can’t even
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Last reply Dec 18, 2020

Lo

... wow. Don’t stay with someone if they’re clearly racist and unwilling to support you, and also proven themselves unwilling to support others. Clearly a case of fetishizing black women. Also your first love is you FIRST love for a reason. there’s also second, third, as long as it takes to find the one for you. And this is clearly not it

Soon to be a big sister

I’m so curious on how the 2nd mixture of us will be will her little sister look similar or get a different % of each hahaha 3 more months until we find out

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Last reply Jul 30, 2020

💀

Congrats! Your daughter is adorable. I wondered the same. I just had my son 8 weeks ago and he looks exactly like my daughter did when she was born. It’ll be interesting if they will grow up and still look similar.

I don’t know what to do

So my mom won’t let me see bf and I’m 21 I know crazy I’m an adult but tomorrow I plan on going to see him and stay the night with him I haven’t seen him in months and I plan on having my best friend cover for me but last time she didn’t and my mom went crazy and idk what to do bc I really love my bf and he keeps telling me that my mom is in the way of our relationship and I know this is going to sound crazy but he is purposely trying to get me pregnant so I will have a reason to see him but anyways she is going to ruin our relationship and he can’t take it anymore. I don’t know what to do

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Last reply Aug 3, 2020

En

It’s really hard when you don’t get the support from people you love but pregnancy won’t fix it . Please don’t fall for it . That’s not how you fix this situation. It’s a major decision and not a temporal one