Hey guys , I don’t really have friends I’m very quite and have really bad public anxiety and I just need to vent since I can’t go to my husband or family

So ladies here is what’s going on I have a niece who’s currently pregnant she’s 19 , I am 25 she’s pretty much my little sister . So as I said she is pregnant but she has told me that she isn’t ready and won’t be keeping it but then she also says she is unsure on what she wants to do . Okay this isn’t the issue guys I understand 100% she is young I’m not making excuses up for her .

Now this is my issue . Last year she got pregnant had an abortion and she was well into the pregnancy and I was upset bc she was being stupid point blank . Now she went on the pill I wish can explain how she got pregnant this time but I can’t I’m not sure if it failed if she wasn’t doing her part but all that matters here is she’s pregnant.

So today we had a normal conversation and she mentioned how every time she brushes her teeth she wants to throw up . I already made it VERY clear I’m not happy about they being pregnant her boyfriend & herself are being stupid and childish . So she is fully aware of my thoughts . When she made that comment I told her “ we’ll make a appointment your just wasting time “ follow by her saying she needs to pay her bills first then she will save up for the abortion.

Now ladies when I read that I flipped but this isn’t something to joke about . This is life this is serious and it’s like ehh fuck it I’ll get to it when I get to it . Am I wrong for wanting to smack the shit out of her . It like it doesn’t matter so I tell her everything that comes to mind & she says well just bc you decide to keep your child doesn’t make you a saint . I’ll be honest I have a 8 month old I got pregnant again and I am currently pregnant when I was 3 months I didn’t know what I wanted to do but I kept both my baby’s .

My issue is she isn’t taken this serious abortions I know affect your body . I don’t want it to be later in life she wants kids and can’t have any or something goes wrong at that god for bid she gets one and it’s botched and stays pregnant.

The first time I get it life happens but the second time it’s wtf kid , you didn’t learn ? I don’t want her to make it a habit or think it’s okay . That’s why this time I’m really hard on her trying to open her eyes . It breaks my heart guys , I have other way to get it into her head .

I’m also not on here for you guys to lash out on her or speak negative just venting but I’m to the point I wanna tell my sister even though she is a dead beat just so she opens her eyes . What would you guys do ? How would you feel ?

Again if comments are nasty I rather you stay shut . I’m a mother myself if it was my daughter I’d beat her ass lol but I’ll also make sure what ever is going to happen gets done . And that we really make sure it won’t happen again

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