I don’t know if anyone is still active in this group, or what.

But, I need some advice.

I’ve been with my fiancé for about a year or so now.

Before I start this, I just want to say, I know I’m not the mother of this child, and I do not step in the way of his decisions for his family, I’ve told him from the get go that I wouldn’t step between his decisions, if he left me to work out stuff with his family, that’s fine. I’ll support him, and be happy for him. And be there for him if things go south.

Continuing on,

His baby momma is something else..

she’s called MULTIPLE times “needing a place to go” when she doesn’t have her son (it’s 50/50 on custody)

And it’s only on the weeks we have his son.

Just last week, when we picked his son up, she called wanting him to give her his phone to use.

Okay, before anyone comes at me, please understand that this girl has been on meth, has multiple drug charges, lost custody of her son at one point because she failed drug tests, and has openly ADMITTED (I have screenshots) to being on meth, again.

She leaves her son at her grandma, and grandpas ALL WEEK. Sunday to Sunday.

I understand him supporting his child, 100%

I’m for him supporting his child, completely.

But, I do not think he should be supporting her, too.

We live 30 minutes away from where she does, and he’s asked me SEVERAL times, (weeks that we’ve had his son) to take him to her house, so he can give her 5, or 10 dollars for cigarettes for her, and her girlfriend.

My fiancé puts his child before anyone, and I respect that. I don’t try to come before his child. I try to help raise and support him when it’s needed. When his mom is in his life, I step to the side, and let them do their thing.

She stalks my social media’s, CONSTANTLY to keep tabs on our relationship.

She’s asked for him back SEVERAL times knowing we’re still together, and I know the whole “He’s still with you,” thing. I get that.

She even went to the extent of reporting my Facebook as a false name, because I had it as his last name, instead of mine. Because we’re engaged.

She has sent me friend requests on top of friend requests because she’s thought we’ve split up, until she seen that we hadn’t then she would delete me.

She drives by our house almost ALL the time (I know her vehicle)

She’s even brought up me failing to conceive and rubbed it in my face that she could give him a kid, but I can’t.

Also, every time I’ve seen this girl, I’ve been nothing but nice to her for his family, and she still runs her mouth about me and drags my name through the dirt.

I’ve bit my tongue with her, for my fiancé and his little boy.

Any advice? I’m completely beat on this whole thing.

Baby Momma Drama