Those who have tried a long time or have had a previous miscarriage how do you not stress during your pregnancy about it?

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I've been trying for ten years since my last miscarriage and I finally found out I am pregnant. I find myself getting so worked up and afraid that I'm going to miscarry that I stress a lot. Just so scared it's still early in the pregnancy and I just want a healthy happy baby.

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The only thing that helped ease my stress was time. Also my doctors gave me extra ultrasounds to make sure everything was ok. But I feel your pain. With this pregnancy I had even uninstalled the app at 7 weeks because I had started bleeding and swore I was having another miscarriage. Turns out the bleeding was just from sex. Tomorrow I am scheduled for a C Section because my little stubborn rainbow baby is breech. Best of luck to you and sorry there is no real way to ease your worry and stress.

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I've had 3 miscarriages,  2011,2012,2015, all at 17-20 weeks along,  I'll be 15 weeks on Monday,  all i can say is you have to train your mind to think positive,  be happy knowing you have a baby growing in you,  but also keep in mind if you stress the baby stresses, if your worry the baby worries so mentally tell yourself that,  trust and know everything will work out just fine, do not over do your self,  stay hydrated,  eat  healthy snacks, and always always think positive,  I'll keep you in my prayers.

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I was thinking about uninstalling all the apps on my phone until I reach the point I can't feel safe. I been so consumed reading and it hurts evertime I see someone says they lost the baby because I know how that feels and I don't want to go through that again.

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It's hard. I go from stressing to not. I don't have my first ultrasound for another three days - I'll be 10w1d then. I told myself just to leave it be and what would happen would happen. I'm crossing everything for Thursday. I've had the worst morning sickness so that's actually helped reassure me as it's been getting only worse... I read that wouldn't happen if things weren't working out... So all I can do is wait and hope.

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Just look on the positive God's blessed you again with a baby maybe he took the last one during pregnancy because he knew something we didn't like maybe the child would have been very sick or something like that and he wanted to cause you less pain as well as his angel and now he blessed you with another child who hopefully everything will be OK with..I miscarried 2 months ago well 3 now and I didn't get to even hear the heart beat before I started bleeding went to the hospital they saw a sac but no baby it was early but then I took a few pregnancy test till my doc appt and it still was a faint line...I went to the doc she had me pee on a stick and told me I must have miscarried cuz I'm not pregnant anymore..and cuz it was early that's why I must have not felt it or saw anything in the toilet.. It's still sad to think about but I'm just trying to be positive cuz God blessed me so soon with another so all I can do is hope and wait and pray all is well.  And now with this one I'm almost 8 weeks have my appt on the 6th have terrible morning sickness and nausea and yea my boobs are so sore so u just keep telling God thanks so much for blessing me and I'll go through anything I need to, to keep and take care of my little one..

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For me I try to just trust that it's out of my hands. God already has a plan for me and this pregnancy and anything I do or don't do can't change the outcome. I might as well enjoy it while I can! Also, I've considered deleting this app until my second trimester lol out of sight out of mind right?

Those who have tried a long time or have had a previous miscarriage how do you not stress during your pregnancy about it?

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