That's exactly how I found my bf. I was completely done trying to find a guy have been single for 2 years and I was gonna delete my profile on the dating app and the day I was going to he messaged me and we met up 4 days later been together ever since:)

And usually once you find one, everybody else seems interested in a relationship!

Absolutely! That's when I met my husband!

I think that's a load of crap. When I found my husband I went looking for him. I was ready to marry and date so I went searching for someone and we fell in love because I pursued him. I think it depends. It happens when you are open to it.