Was this a selfish thing to say to my best guy friend whos hurting me but doesn't realize it?

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Have you told him that he's hurting you? If he doesn't know it...then he won't understand why you're trying to suddenly cut all contact with him. It probably seems completely out of the blue. Instead of asking him if you should stop talking forever, I'd suggest explaining to him how he's hurt you. Then, if he refuses to understand/change, at that point it would be smart to cut contact. But if he's your best friend for real, he probably deserves the opportunity to change and stop hurting you.

This comes with the caveat that if he did something unforgivable, you are absolutely within your rights to cut contact with anyone at anytime.

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if the reason was logical enough then no but if it's over something silly then yes.

Do what makes you feel comfortable.

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no. so what you think is best for you

Was this a selfish thing to say to my best guy friend whos hurting me but doesn't realize it?

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