He's hot & cold about wanting a baby right now.
My husband has a two year old from a previous relationship. I've wanted a baby for about a year now. I have baby fever so bad. But he told me he wanted to wait a while, maybe a few years. Then I turned 22 and he said "I think 22 would be a good age for you to become a mommy." Then never said anything else and doesn't make conversation when I try to talk about it. Well, on Easter, we have 6 newborns in the family, and I was holding one, and he was smiling at me the whole time, and my husband said, "that makes me want to have a baby." He's said that a few other times, and he always gets my hopes up when he says it because he knows how bad I want to! Idk how to get him to talk to me about it and I can't tell when he's being serious because he's just hot & cold about it. He'll say things like that, but blow me off when I try to talk to him or figure out a timeframe of when to try for a baby. Help?!
Edit: I've been on birth control for 5 years. Sometimes he says "you need to come off it" then we have sex and he says "you took your birth control? Good." Ugh.
Add Comment
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.