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We all know most guys are always "in the mood" but us females were not always in the mood to have sex. My husband and I was in an argument today and he said this .. "If I'm your husband I can touch you all I want and wherever I want." Basically making me feel bad for me not being in the mood sometimes. I give it up every time he wants it and the one time I say no, I have to feel bad and get a guilt trip. How many of you ladies feel like this is wrong?

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No,  that's not how it works. Just because you're married does not mean one owns the other.

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This is wrong. Husband or not, consent is not applied.

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He does not own you. You are your own person. Just because you're his wife, doesn't mean he's entitled to anything, ESPECIALLY your body. YOUR body.

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I feel you, my boyfriend has a super high sex drive and I'm doing a super stressful degree so sometimes I'm just not in the mood. I have sex most of the time I don't want to anyway but the one time I said no he started being like ' oh I get it you don't find me attractive anymore, fine whatever' he was saying in it a joking tone but I felt so bad I wanted to cry !! Guilt trip central

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No. That is not how it works. I get men have high sex drives, but most women dont and men seriously need to respect that!

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No. It is really messed up. My ex husband wasn't THAT bad, but he always always wanted to have sex. After awhile it felt like all I was to him was something to have sex with. I am a very strong person, but after 5 yrs divorced, I am still angry at him about that one thing. My new man has a low sex drive, which also sucks lol, but at least when he shows me affection I know it isn't because he is trying to get laid;)

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Why do some men think they need to be dicks if a woman says no. Especially when you're married or serious. Its not like that "no" is forever.

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My husband and I have an agreement. We are each other's however- we only have 49% ownership of the other. Meaning we each still have majority ownership of ourselves and therefore are the deciding vote! It started off as a joke but it actually works out really well for us lol

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