My SO works out of town all week comes home friday nights and leaves monday mornings meaning we barely have time to see each other before he started working out of town we would pick up his nephew ( he is so close to him ) and we would go out to eat and other stuff one time we got in a big argument because we had plans to go out for drinks (before I was pregnant) and we stopped by his brothers house and his nephew wouldn't get out the car and we ended up having to take him with us and he spent the night now I don't know about anyone else but that's invading my personal space!! His nephew is almost 6 and he is very very big for his age he slept with us in the bed and it was completely awkward and uncomfortable for me! Now that my SO works out of town we haven't spent that much time with him but today his brother called asking us to take care of him because they were going to Virginia (we live in nc so they have no need to spend the whole day coming and going its not that far!) to pick something up and he was throwing a fit that he didn't want to go and now we are stuck with him and they left clothes for him to spend the night knowing we live with my parents and we only have one bed in the room like WTF !!! Besides that now instead of going to a nice restaurant we're probably grabbing take out !plans ruined and tomorrow we don't have time for anything because we do laundry and pack clothes Sunday am I being childish ?