Jus venting!!

Kay
I am 19weeks w/twins plus I have a 7yo nd 3yo. My house is a mess nd I have been tryin to do as much as I can to keep it lookin decent but it last maybe 2days then back to a mess again. I went to clean my bathroom nd all of the cleaner is gone so I start complaining nd my SO say either clean it or stop complaining. I instantly get mad bcuz all he does is work, no cookin, no cleaning, no nothing. Why can't he jus help me clean it completely then maybe I won't need to complain about it. I'm so hurt nd my tear won't stop. I wish I could snap my fingers nd it will all be done!! Sorry for the long post, I jus needed to get that off my chest!!