So i told my bf thst i wsnted to stop trying ro get pregnant and see whst happens never know maybe i could get lucky. And yes i did say bf not husband 4 years were going tk wait we been friends since 16 but i got a divorced which he already married some other girl who mentslly not fit but who cares i am ready fkr a family just maybe not husband but he did get me promise ring which is close enough to marriage since we do act like it