I pay for everything is that bad?

Question

So me and my boyfriend hang out and he always complains about money I work less than him yet I still pay for everything , he always says he will pay me back but never does is that wrong?

Answer

Is that how you want your relationship to be? No? Then yes it's bad.

Answer

If it bothers you, then you need to establish a boundary and stick to it no matter what. Meaning if you tell him you are not paying for something, don't pay. People only do what you allow them to, and it sounds like you taught him that he can mooch.

Answer

So the same thing used to happen to me when I first started dating my boyfriend aka now husband but it comes back around he now pays for more sometimes in the relationship you give more at times and just cross your fingers and hope that it comes back around

I pay for everything is that bad?

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