Ok ladies I need some advice, I'm 30 years old, I have 3 beautiful children & an amazing husband. We have decided no more after 2 miscarriages now I'm faced with the decision of birth control or surgery.

My periods are becoming more & more horrible & all my tests have been normal. No dr has ever been able to tell me why my periods are so bad & every month they get worse. It's becoming so bad I literally am a zombie for 3 days a month bc it hurts so horrifically bad!

Being very honest I'm scared both ways not only bc of all the concerns with birth control but also bc as a woman I feel like taking away my ability to have a baby with surgery will not be mentally healthy for me. I need to make an educated decision - anyone have advice on different Birth control methods, or surgery. Or experience with horrible periods & ways to aid pain?