Feeling jealous!

I'm 21 weeks this week and despite all the baby kicks and movements, I'm trying so hard not to become to attached.

Then, when I talk to the birth mother, she tells me the name she has picked out (we found out last week baby is a BOY) and I hate it. The name is honestly terrible.

I know it's not my baby and I know it's not my place, but I just want to tell her the baby names I always thought of.

I don't know. I'm just jealous that I don't have a say, despite me growing this baby, and loving this baby.