Granted, I figured out where it was recently too! We just weren't with others before who focused on that part of the female anatomy before coming together. We've been together nearly ten years, and, silly me, I thought it was internal because I always get off from vaginal intercourse.

But, I've been reading erotica lately (ttc, it helps get me in the mood, and gives me ideas!) and so many references to clitoral stimulation had me looking up female anatomy. Yes, I even looked up porn to see what to do!

I am not super religious. I am pretty adventurous (well, was back in the day) in my idea of sex. But to not know this...not as knowledgeable as I thought! ( I'm 37, and was embarrassed not to know this.)

I mentioned it to my husband, and asked if he knew where it was too...I guess he did his own internet research because last night was the first time he paid attention to it. Didn't bring me to orgasm, but def opens new possibilities!

How about you? Did you always know where it was, or did you have to prompt your SO to find it?