No this, No that!

Mrs. • Momma to 2 on earth and 2 in heaven. Pregnant with the next adventure! 2014 👼🏼 2016 👧🏼 2018 👧🏼 2020 👼🏼 2022 🤰🏼
28 weeks pregnant and I've been wanting to start getting ready for baby, I found this crib set that I love and I've also found a stroller and car seat I like as well, but everyone keeps telling me NO you don't need any of that stuff yet you still have a loooong ways to go yet..... Uhm am I missing something? I thought there was only 40 weeks in a pregnancy (give or take).... It's getting harder to walk due to my hips, tail bone and pelvic area getting ready early so I'm not gonna be able or what to do anything at 38 weeks. My mother is the worst out of them all tho, she's constantly nagging about the way I eat, exercise, what I do with my spare time (which is relaxing due to my pain. And she's also telling me that she's worried about me when it comes to labour and in the delivery room if I'm already starting to have pregnancy pains. I've tried telling her and everyone else to bud out but no one is listening to me. I literally can tell them to shut up I don't want to hear it but they just keep on talking. Sorry rant over if you have any issues or frustrations don't be afraid to share! Thanks