So my husband and I have been talking about names a lot lately. My middle name, my moms middle name and my grandmas maiden name is Joy so I would love to pass that on as my daughters middle name. If we have a boy I would love for my sons middle name to be Daniel (it's my dad's name and my brothers middle name). My husband is like resistant against the names because he wants his family names to live on too... The baby would get our last name obviously (which is his family's name). My husbands dads name is Douglas and I really don't like that name. And he's saying "well my mom and sisters middle name is Elizabeth. Why can't we use that?" Well because Joy is MY name. I'm so irritated and like not trying to jump down his throat about this because we obviously have a lot of time but I need some reassurance that I'm not being a crazy bitch haha