Baby shower?😞

Hey Ladies, anybody else pretty sure nobody will be throwing you a shower? What are your plans for getting things? My bestfriend since 3rd grade is now pregnant too.. A month behind me.. She would have been who would have if anybody... But now that she's pregnant she's just planning herself 2 shower lol. And complaining that she has so many people. Meanwhile I've got nobody!So I have slowly been getting some stuff... I guess just chip away at it as I go and I hope I can afford it' 😣 I'm a nanny and won't have any maternity leave so already stressing about finances... Any pointers would be very appreciated!!! Even to just know I'm not the only one!