So after several weeks of bedrest, I have finally reached 37 weeks a few days ago and my doctor gave me the go ahead that I can have sex again! I've been waiting for this for weeks!! So tonight, I asked my husband to bed earlier than usual and snuggled up next to him trying to instigate the deed. I must admit, after not having sex since 24 weeks and now having a huge belly in front of me, I was feeling a bit rusty and slightly self conscious. But SUPER horny! My husbands response was less than excited. He said he just isn't in the mood and it's been so long anyway, why even bother now. Then turned over and didn't say anything more. It kind of broke my heart. Since we haven't been intimate in a while, I feel we really lost the physical connection that used to be so great. I've tried snuggling with him, tried to kiss and love on him in other ways, even offered BJ or HJ because I want to make him happy! But it's been weeks since we've had any intimacy. I figured he would be excited too but now I just feel worse about myself and I'm sure it has to do with the fact that I am not as exciting and maneuverable and I'm not attractive with a big belly.. I feel so bad now :( and the hormones are just making me cry!