Bisexual?

Question

So I think I'm bi, but I'm not sure if I am. I've always been attracted to girls, but just recently I've really been attracted more to guys. Everyone (including my parents) thinks I'm gay or bi because I'm apparently the stereotypical lesbian. I'm confused, I'm afraid of going to hell because of this, and I'm scared my friends will leave me if I tell them. My friends and family seem pretty supportive,  but I'm still really scared. What should I do? And please, I need advice. Btw, I'm 14 and I live in a small town without many LGBT.

Answer

I use to be a strong Christian but over time have changed. I say this so you know my comment has a base in what you believe. God said no sin is worse than another. Being gay or bi will not send you to hell. The bible says as soon as you accept God into your life all your past and future sin is forgiven. Don't let people who twist the bible to make you see things their way control your life. Plus the bible does not expressly say being gay is a sin people just take certain things and make it seem that way. I am bi personally and the girl that I did most things with was the pastors daughter. I am now eighteen and with the love of my life which turned out to be a guy but don't limit yourself to a gender cause you are scared.

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Hey I'm bi and was raised in a very Christan household with the idea planted in my head that liking the same gender is wrong and you would go to hell. I was too also worried about friends and what they would think of me. If I were you I would experiment, and if you enjoyed it start to accept yourself!!! Nothing is wrong with liking the same gender at all. And I'm sure most of your friends will be more accepting than you think. I know mine were.

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Hey, we are here for you! God loves everyone, right? You are perfect just the way you are so long as you aren't hurting anyone., which I doubt. I was a 14 year old girl who knew not a single other bisexual female in my town, and it was so hard. I understand how you feel, but I urge you not to suffocate what feels natural and good to you. 😊

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I'm bi too and as far as your friends go if they truly are ur besties they won't leave you only the fake ones will leave so it's best to ditch them anyways. And as far as ur sexuality I. The same way I have a BF right ( who's also bi) and I've only dated one girl. I'm fifteen it's still really confusing to me too I'm pretty sure it's always going to be confusing.

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If some people also think your already bi, that makes it a lot easier. My community is very lgbtqa friendly, and I still feel nervous about coming out ( I'm sure no matter what situation you are in it is hard to come out). I would experiment first, and worry about what others think of you later. If you want to ask someone out, go ahead and just do it. Btw I'm 14 as well

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First of all. You should always experiment. Like try dating a girl. You won't go to hell. Trust me. Also your parents should not get mad at you. They should respect your decision. Same with you friends.

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