Why is it so hard to pick names?! We're having a boy, both our first child and my boyfriend wants to name the baby after him (not really so much after him, but it's his family name and his father passed 2 years ago so he's pretty set on carrying on the name) problem is our names are literally male/female versions of themselves: his name is George! lol and he's the 4th which means our baby would be the 5th (I know, crazy isn't it?!) I want to compromise with him and make the baby's middle name either his first or middle name. Which of these sounds best? I'm not ruling out naming the baby after him at all I would just like to put a compromise on the table!