Do you mind if he masturbates?

Question

So... I went out to work today and my husband had a day off. I'm not ovulating at the moment but he masturbated! 
Why?? 
Why would he do that? I was coming home in 7 hours!!! 
What's your opinions on this ladies?? 
It annoys me a lot that he would rather do that than wait for me!!!! 😡😡

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Wow I can't believe people would actually be mad about something that is a normal thing. You can't tell your man not to touch himself. Well you can but that is a super controlling thing to do. Do you get mad if he ejaculates in his sleep? Because that still happens when they are adults sometimes too.

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I don't mind at all 😛 he doesn't watch porn or looks at other women in a sexual way and I realize how lucky I am with that. So I really don't mind when he masturbates. When I am not in the mood and he is lying next to me in bed, I can't blame him for masturbating

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He's human and most humans desire masturbation. It's perfectly normal and it has nothing to do with you or your relationship.

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Well it says masturbating descreases the chance of prostate cancer etc but honestly it does bother me! My fiancé has masturbated in the bathroom while I'm SLEEPING literally in the same room. (Our bathroom is in our room). I've woken up to hearing porn coming from the bathroom. Oh I was pissed because I felt that he'd rather do that then be with me. I don't mine if he does it while I'm at work or something or gone for a week while visiting home but if I'm home or in the same room I feel mad that he wouldn't just I don't know do something with me. But I've talked to him about it and it seems he doesn't do it really anymore. But that's understandable if you're upset but guys will be guys and sometimes they just want to for the fun of it lol or just cause they are bored

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I don't mind at all.
Gives me a bit of a break at least 😅. He doesn't tend to do it during my fertile week

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My SO doesn't want me doing it, so I told him if I can't do it, you can't! 
So, if he wants it we will do it before we go to work!

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In all honesty yes I get upset call me crazy I don't care haha but he should save it for me cause I sure don't masterbate since I have a husband

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It bothers me because I don't understand why he want want to wank off, then wait for me! 
I take it personally! Wasn't sure if I was over thinking it xx

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Normal hours for us is he works 8-5 and I work while our son is at preschool so we normally bed son for 8 and by that stage I'm as tired at 10 when we go to bed that I'm not in the mood if he pushes it I tell him to go have a wank, he knows I enjoy watching and have even bought toys for him to use. I on the other hand have a high sex drive(16w) and I get an hour between finishing work and having to do school pickups and I normally have a play. He knows and has no choice about it, it cheers me up and relieves any stress I have.

Do you mind if he masturbates?

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