Ugh... he's a piece of work.

My soon to be ex husband is so ridiculously immature, I can't stand him right now! We have a 3 year old daughter together and I'm almost 31 weeks pregnant with our second... I left him when I was around 19 weeks because he can't stop using drugs and all the lying and sneakiness that comes along with all that. Life has been a mess ever since... he lost his job due to showing up messed up on heroin. Yet he paints this picture of being father of the year or something. He posts all these things on facebook making it look like I left him for no reason. And that he just couldn't make me happy and there was nothing he could do about it. And that he could have been perfect and I still wouldn't have stayed with him. And how none of it was his fault. Just a bunch of ridiculous things. He hasn't once asked me how my pregnancy is going. He hasn't once asked me if our daughter needs anything. I will say, he bought me a carseat and stroller. But that is it. I was a stay at home mom so I didn't have a dime to my name... I never had any access to "his money". So my parents have so graciously got everything else that I'm going to need for this baby. I don't know what would have happened if I didn't have their support. Cause he has basically dodged any responsibility for these kids. But he has everyone fooled into thinking that he's such a great father and I just left him for no reason. 😑😑😑 sorry for the rant but I just had to get that all out!

Trying to stay anonymous here... so I'll respond like this. Thank you so much Nik for backing me up.

And to that ladies rude response...I realize that he has a disease... doesn't give him a right to be terrible towards the mother of his children. He is still a grown man that needs to take responsibility for his actions. I'm sick of people like you saying I don't understand what he's going through. I stuck by him for 6 years of my life trying to get him to get help. He never thought he had a problem. He never wanted to change. He put our daughter in danger by leaving drugs sitting around where she could get them. He brought shady people into our home. He left me without food or money because he always spent everything on his precious drugs. Both times I've been pregnant, I starved because I couldn't buy groceries. He would be gone all hours of the night and I'd have no idea where he was. I was in no way being judgemental toward others who have struggled with addiction.