So my SO works night shift. Lately he's been getting off early around 9-10 now today... he just got home at 3:00 am I opened the door for him he came to the bed and laid down. Well I started rubbing his back and asked him how was work and that's when I smelled all the freaken beer/liquor on his breath.. I laughed (I figured he JUST got off work so he had a drink. No big deal right) and he sais me and the guys had a few drinks.. (mmm ok ?) well then I asked him..what time did you get off work.. he said at 10 30........

ARE YOU FREAKEN KIDDING ME!! We have a 2 month old, a 2 year old and a 7 year old! Not even one phone call to let me know hey gonna go out with the guys for a bit..NOTHING.. but I still would've been mad either way because I get no breaks! At all!! & even when he is home I still get 0 breaks!! I can't even take a shower for more than 5 minutes because he will let my baby scream her head off! (Crying is good for her lungs BS) or my 2 year old will come in the restroom and try to get in the shower with me! Now don't take this as me not wanting my kids or anything but it would be nice if I could get a break once in a blue moon!! I can't even go to the corner store by myself but yet this fool gets to have a night out!? I swear I just want to punch him right now while he's knocked out snoring next to me!! He won't even offer to watch the kids! As much as I tell him I need a little break. Just an hour or so he's just like ok. Well go take a shower and I'll watch the kids.. which he doesn't even watch them.. I'll get out the shower and my 2 year old is going through my purse putting my make up on or trying to eat my deodorant. My 7 yr old is jumping on his bed and broke the boards to it. . & my youngest is in her swing.. where's my SO playing a freaken game on his phone. I'm just so heated right now you have no idea. Stuck between crying my eyes out or wanting to rip his out!