We started arguing about a completely separate topic and he screams at me saying I control his entire life. Granted I take care of all his finances, our apartment, everything but he asked me to handle his money when we first moved in! He doesn't even have the passwords to sign into his accounts let alone know how to pay them and now I'm told I control his whole life? I asked him do you want to go out with your friends do you want to do other things and he tells me no. Does anyone know where such a comment could even come from? ( might I add we both had an exhausting day and one too many drinks before this started) I'm starting to feel like no matter what I do at this point it's wrong. He plays sports 3 days a week and sees his friends I'm not sure what more I can take.