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So my boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob but I've never given one before. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to mess up. Any ideas on how I can give a good blowjob?

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Follow these rules.

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Step 3) mix it up 
On his penis, you don't have to suck the entire time. You can lick it with your tongue, different ways of licking give different sensations. Use the flat part of your tongue, then lick with just the tip. Go to the tip of his penis, and lick the head, sticking the tip of your tongue in any of the nooks and crannies ; ) then try other things like sucking just the head.

Don't focus entirely on his penis, give the balls some love! Gently suck on each ball individually. (While still giving the twisting and pulling hand job on his penis)

So cliff notes 
- use your hands the entire time
- lick and suck different areas and mix it up.

Don't be afraid to flirtatiously ask him where he wants your mouth or lips to go to next, or ask him "how do you like that?" (Act as if you know it feels good, you just want him to boost your ego lmao) Trust me, it feels good, and the confidence is only going to turn him on more.

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Step 2) HANDS ARE EVERYTHING!!!
They MAKE the blowjob!

This is gonna sound weird, but massage the area between their balls and their anus (butthole) with your fingers. 
The male version of the "G spot" is actually on the other side of the area of skin (inside their butthole which is why a lot of men like anal sex) it can actually be stimulated on the outside.

Wrap your mouth and lips around the shaft and suck it going up and down. 
Stop sucking and slowly lick the lower half of the shaft alternating between the flat and pointed parts of your tongue (it gives different sensations) try to get it as wet as possible with your saliva.
Once you've made it a little wet, use your other hand (the one that isn't massaging between the anus and the balls) and gently twist the skin on his penis, pulling up and down the shaft. (You twist it kind of like one of those twisting handlebars you'd have on a motor scooter ) when you're twisting and pulling the bottom part of the shaft up and down, have your mouth sucking up and down at the top. Make your twisting and pulling work in sync with your sucking.

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Don't sweat it girl! Im about to give you ladies gold!!!
I couldn't fit this all into one post, so be sure to check for the rest ; )
So just to let you know, every guy I've given one to has said its the best they've ever had, hands down. (They brag to their friends, ive had guys friends literally come up to me asking me tell their girlfriends how I do it)
I'm practically a legend. (My gay best friend told me what guys liked, it's worked for me ever since. Who better to find out from than someone who has a penis? Loll)
Don't waste your time watching girls in pornos give blowjobs, most guys I've talked to said straight sucking up and down doesn't cut it.

It's much more simple than you'd think, trust me.
Here's what you do...

1) First, make sure not to use any teeth.
Their man parts are extremely sensitive.

One common misconception is that you have to deep throat it in order for it to feel good. That isn't the case in the slightest. 
Gagging sucks, it's gross, uncomfortable and unnecessary.

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Everyone has to start somewhere, so don't worry. Try watching a video online if you have to. That might help guide you a little. From my experience, just be sure to get it nice & wet and try not to use teeth (i made that mistake when I was younger and my bf at the time actually confronted me about it. 😂) Also, open your throat. If you are afraid of gagging, you can get a throat spray or mints that help with gag reflexes for when you give blowjobs. Let me know If you have any other questions. I'm more than happy to help☺️

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I was so nervous my first time but my SO was so understanding I just told him I was really nervous and how I felt and when I did it after we talked about it and he told me what he like and didn't like, just really all about communication, so just talk to him, but if you aren't comfortable doing it, don't, it's easy as that. Don't let him talk you into something you don't want too

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Ask him what he likes.  It's a growing process of what feels right and what feels good.

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