No element of surprise...

For the last 3 years I've saved up every year to surprise my man with a nice holiday as our birthdays fall 2 days apart. All out of my own money, the only thing hes had to put money towards is the spending money. So this year I haven't planned anything in the hopes that he would do something for me...

I asked him at the beginning of the year to book the week off our birthdays fall on. He did, then decided hes gonna work some days through it! I asked him to surprise me as I've been doing it for the last 3 years now hes in a mood with me! I know he hasn't planned anything because he can't keep those kind of secrets and he is rubbish at saving. Why are men so selfish?! Hes just got himself a better paying job so he can't be that strapped for cash!