Any body's SO react differently than you expected when you told them about your pregnancy?

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Mine was happy, don't get me wrong-- but seemed way more anxious and stressed than I thought. I feel like after 6 months maybe he just thought it'd never happen, even though that's not terribly long I know it felt long to us lol

How about you guys?

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We were trying for 2 years. When it finally happened I was expecting smiles, hugs, jumping, etc. He was more shocked then anything. He couldn't believe it finally happened because we had just started fertility consultation.

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Mine didn't believe it at first and since we have been trying so long he had the audacity to ask me if I slept with someone else since he wasn't getting me pregnant. He didn't really mean it but it still made me mad lol

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Ha! We were trying and I found out and I was the anxious freaked out one!

Mine was totally stoked, happy, kept telling me everlrything was going to be great.

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Mine was annoyingly calm.

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Mine was stressed more

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Mine was shocked this time my other guys 6 months old but took 4 years of ttc to get so when i/we went off pill 2 weeks before I got bfp we weren't expecting it to be that quick I thought would take atleast 4 weeks from last pill he also didn't believe me when I said I think I'm preg for like 4 days once test went positive it took few hours to sink in and now he's happy as and excited

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My SO &I have had multiple miscarriages so when we found out about this one I think he was more shocked than anything lol. But for about 10 wks (found out at 3.5 wks) he didn't seem excited about the baby, or touch or rub my stomach even after 3 ultrasounds &hearing the heart beat. I think he was scared to get attached & get his hopes up. But when we went for our 13 week check up &he saw the baby actually looking like a baby &moving all around I think he fell in love &now you can see his face light up &get excited 😊

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With our first born we were both just in shock, we had tried for over 2 years, then I went to urgent care because I thought I got food poisoning...turned out I was prego.😂 Now with my 2nd...unexpected again, we were in shock and super anxious to know how far along we were. Turned out I was already in my 2nd trimester😂😂 We can't wait to meet baby boy #2

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Mine has been visibly anxious since we found out. We were chatting calmly about it and I asked him do you know how you've been acting since we found out?

He said "remarkably calm?"

I laughed. He believed it. It's better now that we talked about it and went over bills to budget in the baby. I think that was bogging down on him.

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My husband smiled, patted me on the head and went back to sleep...it was barely 5 am. 😉

Any body's SO react differently than you expected when you told them about your pregnancy?

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