Unsolicited Advice -__-

just to let everyone know before hand, this is def. a rant.

I swear I am so tired of everyone having SOMETHING to say about my pregnancy. whether it be about my birth plan (i plan on having an unmedicated natural birth & everyone keeps saying how I'm not going to be able to take the pain) to my water intake, to eating habits, to breastfeeding.. omg I just wanted to scream today. 3 of my close friends have all had children and I swear you'd think they would understand how irritating it is hearing the same things over and over and having others criticize the way you want things to go during your pregnancy and labor... but nope I suppose not! as if I haven't been googling my life away and asking my midwife all the questions I can think of.. I mentioned how I wanted to be comfortable during labor so I just planned on wearing one of my boyfriend's oversized (emphasized the word oversized too) basketball jerseys & one of my friend goes "you shouldn't wear anything tight, you want it to be as loose fitting as possible" ..... DID YOU NOT HEAR WHAT I JUST SAID?!?! jeez.. lord PLEASE give me the strength to handle all these pregnancy/baby/labor gurus, cause I'm near my breaking point.

p.s. I feel a lot better now that that's all out, thanks for listening guys (: