I had a stillborn in 2010 3 days before my due date it was a really tough time for me as I was only 20 i had family around me but my mother took it all to a whole new level she sent people around to my house when all I wanted was space and time to heal I never had counselling my little boy who was then 4 helped me focus and stay on the straight and narrow I lost a lot of weight but he was the one who I kept going for he was the reason I woke up everyday but my mother now nearly 6 years on still uses his death as an excuse for depression I'd understand if it was her child but he wasn't he was my little boy my angel baby! She claims sick money because she says she can't get over the fact he's gone yet she can go slagging it around different men every month she really pisses me off sorry for the bad language but she's using my dead baby as an excuse to claim of the system when there's clearly nothing wrong with her I'm so angry with her 😨😪😥