I feel terrible because I don't feel a connection with my baby yet. I'm almost 12 weeks. This is my first pregnancy. It was planned. My husband and I tried for almost 6months. I prayed for this baby daily. I've wanted to be a mother for as long as I can remember. Now that I'm pregnant I feel guilty because I don't feel a connection with my baby.. Sometimes it still doesn't feel real. I don't really know how to completely explain my feelings. I feel like I should have a connection with my baby but I don't and that makes me feel terrible about myself. I just don't understand why I don't feel a connection yet. I'm very hormonal already and this is just weighing on my mind and making me feel absolutely terrible. Is this normal? Has anyone else felt this way? Please tell me I'm not alone.