A friend just told me she asked her husband when would he feel like it's the right time to start trying for a baby, and he just told her "when the house gets cleaned". She feels insulted and feels like having a baby is something she has to earn from her husband. I've been to their house and while it's not spotless, I would say it's decently organized. I don't know what to say to her. Was he right for saying that?? What would you tell her?