Boy or girl?!

Annette • Just got my bfp with our rainbow baby 🌈
So I'm 25 weeks pregnant today. Every olds wife's tale pointed to girl, every symptom, all these scan theory's, bub theory's etc all said girl girl girl. I paid for a private scan at 16 weeks and was told its a boy! The sonographer looked at every angle and zoomed into show me the boy bits. I was shocked as my gut and instincts said girl too but I was happy as I didn't mind what sex the baby was. So at my 20 week scan I was told that it was impossible to tell as babys legs were firmly crossed! So now I'm thinking could this be a girl? Or is it a boy? Anyone had a similar experience?