Need advice feeling like a bad wife
Sorry in advance if this is long I'll try to make it short.
I'm 27 weeks pregnant and I've had a sex drive but when my husband and I try I do not feel up to it.
I've realized that I'm starting to feel gross, really fat (I was over wieght to start but I've only gained 12 pounds), ugly, and then this week the feelings of being unwanted started to sink in.
My husband hasn't tried to have sex with me in over three weeks. I got really insecure and "joked" with him that he must have found someone else. I'm not normally jealous I'm assuming it's hormones mixed with my bad feelings.
I started telling my husband about all of my feelings and he is nothing but understanding that I felt gross, but reminded me that I'm growing a human and my boobs are trying to get ready for breastfeeding (from a DD to an E already) and all of the fluid and the wieght of the baby... I get it I do and I think of all of this but I still feel gross.
He then said he was trying to give me space because he thought that's what I needed and continued to ask if I wanted him to be more aggressive about pushing for it.
I really feel like one of those girls who cannot make a decision. I want him to give me space because I do not feel comfortable or sexy right now, but I also want to feel wanted.
Is anyone in the same boat?
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