Dealing with surgeries

Hello ladies I'm wondering how do you exactly do with multiple surgeries besides the way that they tell you to about doctors. I'm right now in a relationship with the most sweetest man I could have ever met but it's hard to go do things that we probably would have done before just because I've had a surgery and the recovery process has gone all wrong. Now I have to go through about two to three more surgeries and it's really rough we can't go out and do things like we used to I don't know how to get past it he helps but I just can't get past it. If you ladies can help me figure out the best way to push past this physically emotionally mentally then thank you so very much and even if all you can do is just say I wish you the best just knowing that there's someone out there besides the people here with me and my man understand when you're physically incapable of doing some things it really hinders you in many ways. Thank you ladies before you say anything and after you say everything. Thank you!