My daughter's father's brother offered to give us his daughters strolled as she's like 3 or 4 years old and doesn't use it anymore. Really nice, gently used Stokke stroller. Those are quite pricey if you're not familiar. I really appreciate the offer, and I accepted because who says no to such an expensive gift lol even if it is used. That was in like January. It's now mid May and I asked my daughters father to ask what the status of that is because my shower is next weekend and I haven't heard anything about it since it was initially mentioned. I'm NOW finding out that if we want it, we have to pay for shipping. From a state in the Southwest, to the New York area. Am I wrong for being offended? I've sent baby shower gifts all over the county to friends and relatives and never once asked anyone to pay for shipping lol. I'm kind of shocked like who does that honestly. I understand it's a big gift but YOU OFFERED I didn't ask for your used stroller.