Baby momma drama help need advice
So we have been dating 1 1/2 we met in March and moved in together in August I was hesitant but I gave it a shot. Right when I move in a month things are good then realize him and baby momma are talking more. She decided she wanted him back after I had given up my life. Note I told him to have a talk with her before I gave up my life to make sure it was a certain thing they were done and she said they just don't fit. She wants him to change and be a person he is not.. He continued to tell her they were done and he was in love with me but I could tell it ate away at him not spending everyday with his son cuz A mistake he has made with her.. Four months in and I moved out and they got back together as he continued to text me and didn't wanna lose me. (A lot more to the story but I'm trying to make it short.) Things didn't work out yet again. He said she wasn't trying anymore like she was when we were together. In January we get back together and he says he is still confused. I move in and we try to pick up where we left off. Later on in February i figure out I was 8 weeks pregnant. she doesn't know but he and I both freaked. Caught him texting her wanting a pic of her boobies three days after he already knew about our baby. Btw we got pregnant while they were together as he lied again and said they never touched each other and I'm a dummy and believed him. I treaten to leave and he begs me to come back said he messed up and was sorry that he will be the man I need him to be. And will be there for our baby. I lost the baby in February. I think from the stress of it all. Went to school and rushed to the hospital that morning. I had no signal in the hospital and didn't tell him which one I was at. Left with miscarriage papers my heart crushed and one message from him asking me if I was ok. He could of found where I was and any other time for another reason he would of sent a lot more messages than one if he was really concerned. Prob the hardest thing I ever had to go through. We stayed together until recently caught him yet again messaging her wanting pics. He tells me it's hard cuz they have a child and he needs to be there for him everyday watch him grow up etc. I've always allowed him to be with her if he fills the need to do so I understood so I left the first time. It hurt like hell but he never left me alone. While they were together he said he can't stand the thought of us not being together but I deserve more also.. Now we are back at square one and I don't know what to do!!!?? I love him with everything I have I saw the wedding bells and white fence and babies in the yard. I believe he does love me also or simply being with her would
Be easy. It's not only hard for me losing him but his son also which I was scared about meeting at first for this very reason. Please people tell me what to do??? I'm so lost.. I'm living with my mother an hour away and he still messages me everyday. Asked me to come see him tonight to spend one more night with him just cuddling. I'm sticking to my guns but I lose hope often and end up crying to him trying to make sense of it all..
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