Is 50lbs too much?

Li

I'm pregnant for the first time and super excited. :)

This past weekend my husband and I were talking with our friends about babies and gaining weight during the pregnancy. Both my husband and I feel that gaining anything over the suggested amount (25-35lbs) during pregnancy is pretty extreme and that the excuse "I'm eating for two" is totally taken advantage of. One of our friends got upset with us and said that gaining 50lbs or more during a pregnancy is totally acceptable because you have a little human growing inside of you.

What's everyone's take on this?