Do ur husband's get it?

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Mine doesn't get it. Maybe I'm just being irritable but it's like he's been very upbeat n also eating everything when I'm here dying of hunger but can't eat w this darn nausea, feeling beat tired n then he has the nerve to ask, what's wrong? I want to strangle him! The same thing that's been wrong every day for a few wks now, this damn exhaustion + all day nausea. Grrrrr!!!! Ok rant over.

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Men can just be a little clueless sometimes, especially about pregnant and babies! Just try and be more vocal about how you feel, even if you think you're being too whiny. And just try and cut him some slack - he probably doesn't feel like his actions have anything to do with how you're feeling.

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Mine admits that he didn't quite get it yet. I told him how much pain I was in and he goes "the baby is only THIS big" (I'm 8w) and I flipped. But we had a serious talk about it later on and I read him things, he actively uses this app with me, send him articles and such. Just so he can start understanding that I'm not being dramatic LOL I told him "you watched my get a tattoo on my tit and not flinch!! Don't you think my pain tolerance is a little higher???' LOL

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Nope I don't think they get it until much later. Mine just started realizing it at 33 weeks pregnant and not letting me carry groceries in and telling me to use railings for stairs, etc. Before that though, it was like I hadn't changed at all!

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Awe that happend to me going through morning sickness. He even has the nerve to ask me why I was being such a bitch latley. I gave it to him. All those pregnancy emtions i bottle up for his sake the past 2 weeks i let all out. I told him "I'm kissing the toliet every morning till 1pm. Im hungry and everything i eat is distugting and repulsive. Im tired but for some reason at night by brain wont shut off. Not to metion the 50 extra times i use the washroom now and i need more undies". Well he went to the store the next day. Got me unison sleep tabs, crackers (one of the few things i could stomach some times) ginger ale. Then he went extra and got me Meta Mucil for constapation  ( i get it while prego) and allery medicine since spring was just starting and still here. Thank you hubby for the meds.😙😙😙
Guess all it took was for me to really express what i was going through and how i felt. 
Men dont physically change or have such a hormonal change like us so it is hard to see that they sometime don't really get it. We need to remeber to talk to our husbands when we go through stuff. It is the only way we make them a part of the prenancy. Plus seeing the ultrasound picture and him feeling first baby kick really brought being a dad to reality. Oh and birth too. I think having gone through it before when i outburst he relised "oh this again". Lmao

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Mine is been very understanding :)

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Mine was happy from the get go and started cleaning duties. However he doesnt cook so we ended up eating out a lot which wasn't good for my morning sickness. When it came to my morning sickness he didnt know how to handle seeing me that sick for so long. Now that I have gotten less sick lately (knock on wood) he understands why I need to take naps everyday otherwise im dead tired and grumpy.

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my husband is having sympathy cravings, hes been eating alot of sweets lately and he is not a big sweet eater lol

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My husband is being the same way lol

Do ur husband's get it?

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