Maximum Dosage of all the Drugs

As soon as I hit 7.5 months I told my dr that I wanted the "maximum dosage of all the drugs" in other words, I wanted and EPI. Every time I go to the dr I make sure that it's in my file that I want the EPI. I don't want them to tell me that I have waited too long and can't get one.Β 
I'm scheduled to induced Monday morning and I will be 41-1. Today (40-6) my SO decides to tell me that he doesn't want me to get an EPI. πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘ (mind you he's been to all my dr appointments so he's heard me tell and verify with the dr that I want an EPI.)
He doesn't voice his opinion about much, but when he does I try to listen. He says he doesn't want me to be too drugged up that I can't push. And I don't think they would administer THAT much medicine.
Of course I know that delivering without pain medicine is healthier, I do know that with pain mess can't be too unhealthy. I value his opinion but he's not the one stretching and tearing his lady parts.Β