4wks 5days rush of emotions??

Question

I just recently posted, and then bam! I started bawling my eyes out.

Is this normal? I'm still crying a bit as I think about what it was like to tell my parents.

I also think about my bf and how he continues to smoke, pot and cigarettes. I'm nowhere near him as I don't want to inhale anything, but I think about how long he may or may not live.

I don't want my baby growing up around a habit like that. Is it wrong for me to be so judgmental?

I know some dads smoke as stress relievers, but I don't know. It's my first baby.

I just feel soooo emotional right now

Answer

I think it's completely understandable to not want your child growing up around that crap. You want to set the best example possible. Aside from that, it's not healthy to be around. You are not being judgemental, at all.

Answer

You should try to get your boyfriend to taper off of cigarettes, but it's selfish to ask him to taper from weed. Don't separate a stoner from his love--he will end up leaving you for Mary Jane. You should definitely educate yourself about the cannabis lifestyle, it's nothing as harmful as smoking cigarettes or even drinking alcohol. Good luck to you.

4wks 5days rush of emotions??

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